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    Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 9:20pm
If you saw someone harming themselves(cutting, burning, etc..) what would you do? Does anyone have any stories with seeing someone harming themselves? Has anyone here cut? If anyone doesn't feel comfortable sharing, can you PM me? Thanks
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i wouldn't do anything and yes i have
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

i wouldn't do anything and yes i have
 
If you don't mind can you explain why?
 
This is super random but congrats with your smileys!
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OP people might be more inclined to share their stories if you shared yours

There isn't much you can actually do to stop them, but maybe talking to them about going to therapy might help. It's worth a try, but suggesting therapy unfortunately doesnt work a lot of the time, so don't blame yourself if they don't go.
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man i tried to talk my friend out of it, but he had it in his mind that was the only way to feel better.Sleepy he's stopped on his own now though.  i've tried to do it a few times but everytime someone would come busting through the doorLOL so i was like forget it...it wasnt meant to be.its not funny but it was like that big noise that startles you...lol.
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Originally posted by Cali naps Cali naps wrote:

Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

i wouldn't do anything and yes i have
 
If you don't mind can you explain why?
 
This is super random but congrats with your smileys!

they'll stop when they're ready (or come up with some other self destructive behavior) or seek professional help. There's really nothing you can do but encourage them to seek help



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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

OP people might be more inclined to share their stories if you shared yours

There isn't much you can actually do to stop them, but maybe talking to them about going to therapy might help. It's worth a try, but suggesting therapy unfortunately doesnt work a lot of the time, so don't blame yourself if they don't go.
I don't have a lot to share. I mean, I know a lot of people who have or still do. I don't do or say unless they ask me for help or they want to talk. It bugs me though because I used do a lot to myself so I know what they are going through. Tbh, the only reason why I made the thread is because I recently relapsed and I started wondering about other Povs and experiences.
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Thanks to everyone who has posted in here so far
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Cali, would you be willing to go to therapy? (if you're not already)
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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

man i tried to talk my friend out of it, but he had it in his mind that was the only way to feel better.Sleepy he's stopped on his own now though.  i've tried to do it a few times but everytime someone would come busting through the doorLOL so i was like forget it...it wasnt meant to be.its not funny but it was like that big noise that startles you...lol.
I'm glad he stopped and the last part made me giggle.LOL I'm glad you never started!!
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