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Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

 
"The only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday"


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Originally posted by lovelife lovelife wrote:

working out
cut people out of my life that would make snide remarks and try to bring me down
read more
do things that i  enjoy
smile/laugh more
set goals (short & long term)
work toward those goals
accomplish those goals  
don't compare myself to others 
"The only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday"



stop being judgemental don't bat ur eyes at thirsty ass mothers...they move on to someone else when they realize u got not a damn thing for them. No need to go back and forth most things we need not dwell on stress ages . keep positive but honest people in ur inner circle.

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Originally posted by Regalness Regalness wrote:

Originally posted by Harmonii Harmonii wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5<br>twerk <img src=smileys/smiley22.gif border=0 alt=Stern Smile title=Stern Smile /> <---- i've never known anyone to be sad while twerking. true story<br><br><br></td></tr></table> <br><br><img src=smileys/smiley36.gif border=0 align=middle /> <img src=smileys/smiley36.gif border=0 align=middle /> I just died</td></tr></table> 
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<div>YASSSSS I flatlined...that is a valid point though.  That made my day. LMAO </div>[/QUOTE eanaj5
twerk Stern <---- i've never known anyone to be sad while twerking. true story




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YASSSSS I flatlined...that is a valid point though.  That made my day. LMAO
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Ikr!! After reading that! I"m done!!DeadLOL


Ikr!! After reading that! I"m done!!DeadLOL
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Therapy.

I know some people can't afford it or don't think it's a viable option but you would be pleasantly surprised at what you can learn about yourself through having a professional hear you out. I've been seeing one because last year was a lot more traumatic than I could handle. It's been a blessing because my confidence in myself and the things that I can accomplish steadily increases daily.

I've been trying to do all of the things that make me happy, especially getting back into shape. Seriously, if you look good you feel good and have a contagious aura about yourself.
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Wow my mind ran on this thread last night!
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1. Stop worrying about what other ppl think

2. Take time to find your own passions

3. Actualize those passions!!

4. Avoid negative ppl like the plague

5. Don't engage in negative behavior (if you're wasting time gossiping about others, then your happiness is false as it's based on the debasement of others)

6. Make short & long term goals. As you accomplish the short term, you'll begin to feel better about yourself and your esteem will rise.

7. Treat yourself, don't wait for someone else to notice that you deserve something

8. Change things you don't like about yourself

9. Don't fear change - change is always good


I used to have horrible self esteem as a child, and I literally had to reinvent myself to become a stronger person as people know me today. I got bullied quite a bit until I started HS bc I was very shy and for some stupid reason, people mistook my shyness for being conceited. And thanks to vocal ppl in my school, I pretty much thought I was one of the ugliest things walking. One of the best things I ever did was going out of state for college & distancing myself from all the negativity of the ppl I went to school with (as many of them I'd known since elementary). It gave me a chance to meet new people, start fresh and also discover more about who I was as an adult rather than the image of myself that others projected to me as a child. 
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