Self Esteem workshop

I'ma name a few and come back later to list some more if anyone's interested in this thread. If it fades into oblivion, oh well.

-Refrain from judging other people's physical appearances. Judgement makes you insecure because we then tend to become more self conscious of our own flaws.

-Try to compliment at least one person every day (preferably a black woman if you are a black woman, a black man if you are a black man).

-Recognize your own weaknesses in others and give them the same pass you'd expect people to give you for your personality shortcomings.

-Treat others the way you want to be treated

-Take care of your physical appearance with regular grooming etc. When you look good (to you), you feel good.

I'll add more later...

 

YASSSSS I flatlined...that is a valid point though.  That made my day. LMAO

 

Well if you are building and developing yourselif, your work, your education, your language etc ( you don't have to brag about it or let folks know) .. then YOU are the person held in esteem by yourself. So .. this is self-esteem.

 

This would be the OPPOSITE of trying find rich man to give you 'things', relying  on having 'a man' to validate you, getting knocked up by several baby daddys, staying with a guy that cheats and later belittles you, getting in physical fights with men and women, dressing like a tramp .. and anything along these lines. This stuff screams 'I am so desparate that I am willing do anything for atttention'. These woman have low self-esteem.