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    Posted: May 18 2009 at 10:28am
inspired by cc's thread
 
Someone in there said its not normal for another man to find another man attractive.
 
Well is it "normal" for another woman to find another woman attractive.
 
Many times on here woman have hinted @ being attracted to another woman, is it okay if a straight man was on here saying, "he just sent my gaydar off"   ? Confused
 
I mean I know I would not want my man to be sexually attracted to another man, but what if its really all gray and NOT black and white like everyone wants to think.
 
What if most straight men have desires and attractions sometimes for men but would never act out on them?
 
Whats the difference between that and women finding a woman sexually desirable and appealing???????????????????????????????
 
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And have you ever been sexually attracted to someone of the same sex; whether you acted on it or not???
If so why is it okay for you to be but not your guy or girl to have those same feelings????


Edited by gapeach77 - May 18 2009 at 10:32am
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Originally posted by gapeach77 gapeach77 wrote:

Whats the difference between that and women finding a woman sexually desirable and appealing???????????????????????????????


Not a durn thing.

Except that we've told ourselves its more acceptable for girls to like girls than it is for guys to like guys.
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Yup, it's a double standard that even i uphold. Sad but true.
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double standard at its best
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote smartgirl88 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 18 2009 at 10:38am
Double stanndard , that I agree with
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Sinnamon_Mami Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 18 2009 at 10:40am
I think society over-sexualizes women and promotes girl on girl action... Not only that, a girl can do something to a girl sexually without "messing something up" whereas a guy does something to a guy sexually and he has to "violate" his butt.. so, when he "becomes straight" again, well, a woman can't do much for him...

Yall know what I'm trying to say?? This confuses me b/c it doesn't apply to me (hopefully someone can clear up what I'm trying to say)
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IA with the above
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yes it's a double standard.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote afterglow86 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 18 2009 at 10:44am
^^lol

it's def. a double standard, but i think that society has ingrained it into men that even THINKING about men in a sexual fashion makes you less masculine. especially black men, so hell no they wouldn't admit it. that's why there is that whole DL thing going on.
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