| Jewels212* wrote:|
| Ds2nice wrote:|
| Jewels212* wrote:|
can yall help me run a background check on some1? I always run it on ppl i date but this one i cant find NADA on! He claims he's divorced but I need to double check and find out more. What are sum sites??
Wow, he must be good. There are ways to block websites/companies from providing personal information about you. He probably found a way to do this. I'm no longer good at this. Hopefully someone can chime in on how to get through this barrier.
I know thats whats scaring me though. He works as an accountant for a big company. His job paid for his phone and internet usage so we talk through messaging/email and will call through google bc he doesn't have an actual phone #. All i have to work with is his email address.....
eta: I thought I could possibly be the side chick but now he wants to move in together. i prolly sound naive at this point but he spoils the hell out of me lol
Sorry already there are too many Red flags:
- My mobile phone, car and internet are paid for by my company too .. so I have real phone that people can call whenever they want! Only having an email address as contact data THESE DAYS is highly suspect in my book.
- He spoils you like heck? How long have you known him? Lots of losers basically target needy women and tell them what they want to hear and do the things she wants - reels her in - fast. Within a couple of months he is like a fixture in her life … so he is getting ready for a payoff. But regular guys take their time to see what kind of girl YOU ARE before they start spoiling you like heck. Watch out.
- He wants you to live together? Really? Again how long have you known him? It usually takes several years of knowing a guy in a relationship – knowing where he lives and works, his family, friends, co-workers etc. to decide IT’S LOVE and you want to get married. That living together crap is just the woman auditioning for the role of wife.
Give it a few years - that way .. you can see ‘who he is’ yourself and who he is reflected in the faces of friends and family and in their interaction with him. If you don’t know all these people in his life for a number of years .. something ain't right. Maybe you know them but they are in and out of jail/work, living in odd places, always needing money, have that hostile angry thing staring at you . This tells you … what kind of guy you are dealing with. They know his dirt.
- There is probably other stuff that you are not telling us about that also doesn’t sound right.
In my experience … when everything is a big rush and weird things .. like no contact info is available and he wants to hurry and live together .. that tells me to back off.