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Thanks! all these websites I'm coming across wanna charge you to see more info. Fck that
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can yall help me run a background check on some1? I always run it on ppl i date but this one i cant find NADA on! He claims he's divorced but I need to double check and find out more. What are sum sites??
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I'm gonna be more consistent with it. I dated a guy who ALWAYS picked me up in a different car. It was always silver and im not a car person but I knew it was different and expensive* I called him Avis

A cab hit his car and he went off... chasing him down then pulled a gun. btch told me he's on *parole, he robbed a bank. Nope!

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A few years ago (pre-hubby), I went on a couple of dates with a guy I had met at a car dealership.  On the dates, he had insisted to pick me up right after he leaves work.   He refused to go home to freshin up before going on the dates.   During the dates, he only used cash to pay for meals, drinks, and entertainment.  Never used a credit card.    I had volunteered to pick him up at his house, he gave me a BS excuse that his parents are staying with him temporarily. 
 
So I didn't feel right about him and I wanted to really know the truth.  So I looked him up.  I did a small background check and found out he's married.   I'm so happy that I didn't allow him to get anywhere close to the draws. 
 
Ladies- please do a background check before sleeping with anyone.  Wolves in sheep clothing will never volunteer information.
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can yall help me run a background check on some1? I always run it on ppl i date but this one i cant find NADA on! He claims he's divorced but I need to double check and find out more. What are sum sites??
 
Wow, he must be good.  There are ways to block websites/companies from providing personal information about you.  He probably found a way to do this.  I'm no longer good at this.  Hopefully someone can chime in on how to get through this barrier.
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Sometimes I do random background checks on my fb "friends"Stern Smile. I check the court records and the sex registry. Domestic violence charges, messing with underage girls, child support cases etc are some of the things that I have found.
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Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Originally posted by Jewels212* Jewels212* wrote:

can yall help me run a background check on some1? I always run it on ppl i date but this one i cant find NADA on! He claims he's divorced but I need to double check and find out more. What are sum sites??
 
Wow, he must be good.  There are ways to block websites/companies from providing personal information about you.  He probably found a way to do this.  I'm no longer good at this.  Hopefully someone can chime in on how to get through this barrier.

I know thats whats scaring me though. He works as an accountant for a big company. His job paid for his phone and internet usage so we talk through messaging/email and will call through google bc he doesn't have an actual phone #. All i have to work with is his email address.....

eta: I thought I could possibly be the side chick but now he wants to move in together. i prolly sound naive at this point but he spoils the hell out of me lol 


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Originally posted by Jewels212* Jewels212* wrote:

Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Originally posted by Jewels212* Jewels212* wrote:

can yall help me run a background check on some1? I always run it on ppl i date but this one i cant find NADA on! He claims he's divorced but I need to double check and find out more. What are sum sites??
 
Wow, he must be good.  There are ways to block websites/companies from providing personal information about you.  He probably found a way to do this.  I'm no longer good at this.  Hopefully someone can chime in on how to get through this barrier.

I know thats whats scaring me though. He works as an accountant for a big company. His job paid for his phone and internet usage so we talk through messaging/email and will call through google bc he doesn't have an actual phone #. All i have to work with is his email address.....


Red Flags!


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Originally posted by Jewels212* Jewels212* wrote:

Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Originally posted by Jewels212* Jewels212* wrote:

can yall help me run a background check on some1? I always run it on ppl i date but this one i cant find NADA on! He claims he's divorced but I need to double check and find out more. What are sum sites??
 
Wow, he must be good.  There are ways to block websites/companies from providing personal information about you.  He probably found a way to do this.  I'm no longer good at this.  Hopefully someone can chime in on how to get through this barrier.

I know thats whats scaring me though. He works as an accountant for a big company. His job paid for his phone and internet usage so we talk through messaging/email and will call through google bc he doesn't have an actual phone #. All i have to work with is his email address.....

eta: I thought I could possibly be the side chick but now he wants to move in together. i prolly sound naive at this point but he spoils the hell out of me lol 
Stern Smile
 
Chile run. Run fast. That is some bullsh*t.
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LOL This is why i post on bhm to snap me back to reality


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