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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (7) Thanks(7)   Quote india100 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 11:01pm
I would advise any single to check . I saw a follow up story about a young man missing for 10 days after meeting a girl on a dating service . The young man went on 2 dates with her . Today his body was found in a burn out house . She set the man up for his nice car and money . Ouch
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Mixer Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 11:02pm
That's sad and shocking.
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Yup I always do my research
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Where are people running bckgnd checks?  There's the sex offender registry, state offender search portal, I've heard of intelius.com...any other good places?
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Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

Where are people running bckgnd checks?  There's the sex offender registry, state offender search portal, I've heard of intelius.com...any other good places?
your county assessor records for tax liens, marriages, divorces, judgements etc
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Katrenia Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 11:25pm
Some people do full background checks, including credit checks before marriage. I understand this because I have a co worker whose new husband had delinquent child support and once she married him, her tax return went to pay his back child support.
Even after they divorced, her tax refund was still being confiscated for his child support. This woman had to hire an attorney to get a court order to stop the action.
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Found out this guy I was dating was married by doing a background check. I didn't even check him on purpose LOL I was bored at work one day  (was working the graveyard shift) and started looking up ticket citations online....I was looking up everyone I knew in the county...again, I was bored LOL then for some reason I decided to look up court records on the same folks that I was checking citations on.....found a marriage certificate on dude.

Been googling dates ever since...
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I've never done a full blown "background check," but I always do a thorough Google Search, Pipl search, and social media search
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Oh, and buddy denied it to the very end LOL

Me: So you're married?
Him: Huh?
Me: Stop it.
Him: what are you talking about?????
Me: Really dude?
Him: More denying

This was back in 2007...I still see him from time to time, since he owns a store in  a shopping center that I still frequent. Still denies it. If I didn't know any better, I would think I was mistaken LOL But I know it was def his marriage certificate I found based on the fact that a. His name isn't that common B. What's the likelihood of someone having the same unique name, place of birth, AND dob?? Ermm
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote mizzsandra00 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 24 2014 at 12:17am
Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

I would advise any single to check . I saw a follow up story about a young man missing for 10 days after meeting a girl on a dating service . The young man went on 2 dates with her . Today his body was found in a burn out house . She set the man up for his nice car and money . Ouch

None of this would have came up in a check tho....
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