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    Posted: Jan 23 2014 at 10:41pm
I know there have been threads about this before but I don't feel like looking for them...how do people feel about this.  Is it something you have done?  Did it change your perception of the person or influence your decision as to whether or not to continue a relationship.  Did you actually find anything questionable and if so did you just ignore it? 

I was talking to someone about this and on one hand, it seems like a good idea cause people be crazy these days; on the other side, what good does it really do?


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It's 2014. You better use the technology you got to find out any information you can. The life you save might be your own. My friend didn't do that and ended up dating a convicted child molester for almost 4 months #truestory
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Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

It's 2014. You better use the technology you got to find out any information you can. The life you save might be your own. My friend didn't do that and ended up dating a convicted child molester for almost 4 months #truestory



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I felt bad for her but how you go 4 months without doing any type of check on dude? You put his name in the system and his arrest records will pop right up. She should have did that as soon as she got his first and last name
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I don't see a problem with it. It can possibly help you avoid a no good situation.
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I'm for it.
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I did it after I dated someone and found out he had a domestic violence charge. Looks like I dodged a bullet. I'll definitely be doing it from now on though
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I did it before I got married, I don;t have time to be marrying folks with records of diddling kids. You can never be too careful, hell he might have a history of punching women in they eye. Ouch
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I'm going to tell my next girlfriend a fake first and last name.
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This should be a must.


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