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Girl it ain't hard for niccas to live a double life these days. He sounds shady. But I could be wrong.
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Girl it ain't hard for niccas to live a double life these days. He sounds shady. But I could be wrong.

I know what you mean.  I get skeptical over anything but for some reason Im giving him the benefit of the doubt. He seems like a genuine guy but that whole sh*t urks me.
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Any1 ever paid for spokeo or intellius? Do you actually get results from it?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 24 2014 at 10:54am
i dont really have a problem with a record kir

eta, well... it depends. i dont want him to be unable to get a good job 



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Just because his company pays for the phone doesn't mean he can't use it or that you can't have the number
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Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

I'm gonna be more consistent with it. I dated a guy who ALWAYS picked me up in a different car. It was always silver and im not a car person but I knew it was different and expensive* I called him Avis

A cab hit his car and he went off... chasing him down then pulled a gun. btch told me he's on *parole, he robbed a bank. Nope!

Blocked!



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I repeat for the people in the back...anyone looking for criminal records...check your state AND you county offender records.  Check the list of any place you THINK they may have ever been.  You can even check outstanding warrants to some extent I believe. I'm not an expert at this (hence making this thread).  But start there to kock out the "obvious" things.


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Originally posted by Jewels212* Jewels212* wrote:

Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Originally posted by Jewels212* Jewels212* wrote:

can yall help me run a background check on some1? I always run it on ppl i date but this one i cant find NADA on! He claims he's divorced but I need to double check and find out more. What are sum sites??
 
Wow, he must be good.  There are ways to block websites/companies from providing personal information about you.  He probably found a way to do this.  I'm no longer good at this.  Hopefully someone can chime in on how to get through this barrier.

I know thats whats scaring me though. He works as an accountant for a big company. His job paid for his phone and internet usage so we talk through messaging/email and will call through google bc he doesn't have an actual phone #. All i have to work with is his email address.....

eta: I thought I could possibly be the side chick but now he wants to move in together. i prolly sound naive at this point but he spoils the hell out of me lol 


By company he means his wife......dont fall for that move in shyt.....ask JustMe.....
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not a bad idea.


anybody ever get upset about being background-checked?


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I've ran a few bishes through Lexis Nexis before engaging. LOL
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