| ScorpioLuv wrote:|
My homegirl is killing me now, lol. Would you give a relationship a second try with someone where your relationship was disrespectful on both sides due to immaturity (bc of their age) on one person's end and the person being fed up and giving them a taste of their own medicine on the other, if you both have seemed to grow past it (years have gone by) and leave the past dead and buried?
If it was disrespectful on both sides THEN .... what makes them think that it would not be disrespectful on both sides ... NOW.
That's a poor dynamic in a relationship and typically when you restart the relationship the same issues resurface .. and you fall back into the same dysfunctional relationship patterns.
Sometimes there is 'unfinished business' that you may not even be aware of until something goes wrong and ZAP .. you get to get him/her BACK for an incident that happened X time ago. See,never got over whatever - can get ugly.
I say NO.
Learn from your mistakes in that relationship and start fresh with someone else.
Edited by Printer_Ink - Apr 29 2014 at 3:02pm