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Operates a church??? What is she doing having babies outside of wedlock? Maaaaan, I can't...
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Just sad all around...i wont judge her or her circumstances

it will be interesting to see how this plays out in court...
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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

I don't feel a bit sorry for her.

Obviously her family situation is bad if she could not count on family to babysit while she went to work.

Another example of irresponsible sex if she got knocked up with 2 babies at her age ... where she knew did could not provide for them so she would end up leaving them in odd places ALONE instead of hiring help.

Should have had responsible sex and not gotten knocked up at all or had an abortion within the first month or two when the baby was the size of a pea.

Instead she brought those 2 innocents lives into the world (who knows what else they suffered at her hands) just so that they could die a horrible death like that.

Fry her.


I don't understand when people talk like this. Your observation is already after the fact that she had the kids. She probably had a good job before having the kids and lost it after the kids were born. YES she is wrong for leaving the innocent babies in the car but how can you chastise and say she should've had protected sex knowing the article states the kids are 20 months and 3 months already here in the world.


Bruh responses and opinions like this are the reason why the world is going to sh*t. I'm thoroughly tired of people coddling women who make the MISTAKE of having kids they can't afford or duly provide for. Maybe if she had been told to keep her legs closed until she could provide for her kids in a fashion that would not have resulted in their painful deaths, one life could have been spared. This woman killed her kids. They already started off at an immediate disadvantage with no father in the picture because of mama's actions but now they're dead -_-.
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Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

I don't feel a bit sorry for her.

Obviously her family situation is bad if she could not count on family to babysit while she went to work.

Another example of irresponsible sex if she got knocked up with 2 babies at her age ... where she knew did could not provide for them so she would end up leaving them in odd places ALONE instead of hiring help.

Should have had responsible sex and not gotten knocked up at all or had an abortion within the first month or two when the baby was the size of a pea.

Instead she brought those 2 innocents lives into the world (who knows what else they suffered at her hands) just so that they could die a horrible death like that.

Fry her.


I don't understand when people talk like this. Your observation is already after the fact that she had the kids. She probably had a good job before having the kids and lost it after the kids were born. YES she is wrong for leaving the innocent babies in the car but how can you chastise and say she should've had protected sex knowing the article states the kids are 20 months and 3 months already here in the world.


Bruh responses and opinions like this are the reason why the world is going to sh*t. I'm thoroughly tired of people coddling women who make the MISTAKE of having kids they can't afford or duly provide for. Maybe if she had been told to keep her legs closed until she could provide for her kids in a fashion that would not have resulted in their painful deaths, one life could have been spared. This woman killed her kids. They already started off at an immediate disadvantage with no father in the picture because of mama's actions but now they're dead -_-.


Femm anything can happen its not like when people plan to have babies their 1st thought is I ain't gonna take care of this baby. There is no way you can predict the future. What if the father was there and died of natural causes will you say she should've had an abortion. Prays you are never in this situation. I have compassion for mothers. YES it was a dumb mistake but you cannot turn back time OTHERWISE YOU WILL NOT BE HERE YOURSELF!!!!

EDITED to ADD: I'm a mother myself so I can speak on this subject. Now my fingers are ready for any rebuttals you may have cos I got all damn day.


Edited by sugabanana - Jan 15 2014 at 2:00pm
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This is why I don't support single parent. Where the father(s) of the two babies? Everyone wants to have children before they are able to take of themselves.

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I don't understand. A 20 month old was even able to chill in a car for hours with a four month old. The 4 month old can sleep, but the 20 month old wouldve been all over that car. That's crazy.

Really sad situation. It's unfortunate that the babies died and that she's going to jail. She's at least a little crazy though, there's no way she should've thought that was a good plan.

People do still steal kids ya know...
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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

This is why I don't support single parent. Where the father(s) of the two babies? Everyone wants to have children before they are able to take of themselves.



Correct.

I don't support single parenthood either. It's different if one of the parents happens to die because at least the INTENT was there but the business of getting knocked up so that you have this pitiful 'babydaddy' type situation today cheats the child out of a normal heathly family unit.

This would be a stable environment where the parents have a heathly relationship and the maturity and resources to raise a child. This way the child can model this behavior and raise their own family the same way.

Those 2 babies ... never had a chance. :(
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Poor babies.

So much truth in this thread lawd.
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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

This is why I don't support single parent. Where the father(s) of the two babies? Everyone wants to have children before they are able to take of themselves.



We can only control who we sleep with. We cannot control if the dude will stick around for the raising of the kids. She tried but it was a failed attempt and a super failed decision to leave those angels in the car. The guy still could've left her if they were married and were having issues hence still lbeing a single parent.

I can only blame a person if they blatantly said I want to be a SINGLE mother and want the father to have no part in the raising of my child. If she failed at that choice then I would blame her but not for being single. When they were fugging she wasn't single.
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