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Dang Sang.

Other requirements aside I absolutely have to love someone to even think long term.
The chemistry has to be right.
There has to be a yearning along with the other sensible qualifications.

I don't think going by a specific formula would give me long term happiness and that's an important factor for me.
Not just can he provide this and that though that high on the list too
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Love is always funny to me.
Because given the right circumstances I could love almost anyone.
I don't base my relationships on love.

I think this applies to a lot of people, most people
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Jones I don't think you understood what I was saying.
I'm saying that just because I love you...that doesn't mean we need to be together.
I love/have loved a lot of people so it's not a top priority for me. 

First and foremost I need someone that respects me, can provide, is dependable, we have to share common philosophies on life, agree on parenting, etc.
If all of that is there I'm going to love you....there's just no way around it.
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Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

thats definitely better than nothing.. 

what did he have to say about the break? was he mad? did he try to change your mind? 
he wasnt like, 'okay, nvm… i wont go if it bothers you that much' ? 



He wasn't happy about it and insisted that he'll call me every day to see how I'm doing




girl no. he callin' and checkin' to make sure u don't, won't, can't move on. he's off gettin' it in with somebody else but he's calling to make sure u don't. I know it's scornful and you're hurting but get rid of him like for real.
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Y'all saying black men might b better, but....I think I'm leaving race out of this one. Men ain't $hit. Mexican, white, black, Jewish, Italian, middle eastern, Jamaican, American, European, African, rich, poor, uneducated, educated, married, single, young, old, tall, short, THEY AINT $HIT

But them some of them r. At least ur not wasting time with a terrible one, passing up good ones anymore: )

Black men my not be shattt but the stroke game will have you forgetting all their sins. Thank you.


Edited by sugabanana - Jun 15 2014 at 6:28pm
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a bunch of Nene's? Wot?
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Wot? Now she lying?

well dang. as The BHM turns.
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Gotta watch out for those smart sounding men. Sometimes they're worse than the thugs.

lmao!  
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Who suggested this break?...Yep he played the game very well.
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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Y'all saying black men might b better, but....I think I'm leaving race out of this one. Men ain't $hit. Mexican, white, black, Jewish, Italian, middle eastern, Jamaican, American, European, African, rich, poor, uneducated, educated, married, single, young, old, tall, short, THEY AINT $HIT

But them some of them r. At least ur not wasting time with a terrible one, passing up good ones anymore: )


Black men my not be shattt but the stroke game will have you forgetting all their sins. Thank you.



And there will never be any argument there
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