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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Y'all saying black men might b better, but....I think I'm leaving race out of this one. Men ain't $hit. Mexican, white, black, Jewish, Italian, middle eastern, Jamaican, American, European, African, rich, poor, uneducated, educated, married, single, young, old, tall, short, THEY AINT $HIT

But them some of them r. At least ur not wasting time with a terrible one, passing up good ones anymore: )


Are you suggesting we all start scissoring now?
Why are you so mad at men?Cry
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Nope. I think we should go with our first minds and use more logic than love. Im mad that we keep having these same issues because love is pushed down our throats from the time we can see. I think women need to focus more on being happy then being with a man. At that point we can attract the right men.

And actually, I'm not angry. I'm a Capricorn with a Scorpio rising.

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Love is always funny to me.
Because given the right circumstances I could love almost anyone.
I don't base my relationships on love.
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Fitz?  Fitz has money, a presidency and he's a smooth talker

Nahhh this one is no Fitz

I went in on this one but bhm ate my post... so I'll leave it at, Jacy cut him off completely by sundown 

And if he's fake, Imma be so vex that this is your fantasy man


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^^That makes sense. If ur a loving person l, which women normally are, other standards have to take precedence.
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Dang Sang.

Other requirements aside I absolutely have to love someone to even think long term.
The chemistry has to be right.
There has to be a yearning along with the other sensible qualifications.

I don't think going by a specific formula would give me long term happiness and that's an important factor for me.
Not just can he provide this and that though that high on the list too
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Dang Sang.

Other requirements aside I absolutely have to love someone to even think long term.
The chemistry has to be right.
There has to be a yearning along with the other sensible qualifications.

I don't think going by a specific formula would give me long term happiness and that's an important factor for me.
Not just can he provide this and that though that high on the list too
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Love is always funny to me.
Because given the right circumstances I could love almost anyone.
I don't base my relationships on love.

I think this applies to a lot of people, most people
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Jones I don't think you understood what I was saying.
I'm saying that just because I love you...that doesn't mean we need to be together.
I love/have loved a lot of people so it's not a top priority for me. 

First and foremost I need someone that respects me, can provide, is dependable, we have to share common philosophies on life, agree on parenting, etc.
If all of that is there I'm going to love you....there's just no way around it.
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Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

thats definitely better than nothing.. 

what did he have to say about the break? was he mad? did he try to change your mind? 
he wasnt like, 'okay, nvm… i wont go if it bothers you that much' ? 



He wasn't happy about it and insisted that he'll call me every day to see how I'm doing




girl no. he callin' and checkin' to make sure u don't, won't, can't move on. he's off gettin' it in with somebody else but he's calling to make sure u don't. I know it's scornful and you're hurting but get rid of him like for real.
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