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He has a type.....Sleepy
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Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

thats definitely better than nothing.. 

what did he have to say about the break? was he mad? did he try to change your mind? 
he wasnt like, 'okay, nvm… i wont go if it bothers you that much' ? 



He wasn't happy about it and insisted that he'll call me every day to see how I'm doing


Change your number......there is no reason y'all should be taking a break......and the only reason he is gonna keep in contact is so he can do his dirt and slide back in when he grows tired of her......he essentially chose that woman over you.......I wish Mr00 would.....thats a basic level of respect.....
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to see how youre doing…? 

do you see that he doesnt value you much if he simply wouldnt choose you.. over some woman from school..? 

i bet he just hates being given ultimatums though and feeling like hes not in charge… 


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Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

yes he is white and he did go to meet the lady. I am heartbroken

Hug
all jokes aside.. 
why didnt you tell him not to go? and that it bothered you? 


I did before I posted this thread. He said that she's just a friend and how can I expect him not help someone who has confided in him.
 
help her do what? cum?
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Do you have friends you can talk to about it? I hope that you have a good support system.
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Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

thats definitely better than nothing.. 

what did he have to say about the break? was he mad? did he try to change your mind? 
he wasnt like, 'okay, nvm… i wont go if it bothers you that much' ? 



He wasn't happy about it and insisted that he'll call me every day to see how I'm doing


You need a clean break. Now. This will NEVER be a good relationship. NEVER. Save yourself now.

Clean break. Block him in your phone, your social media, and set your email so anything that comes from him goes straight to the trash.

He does not care about you. He does not care about black people.

Save yourself.


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teach him a lesson… 

yall have been together 2 years and he wouldnt pick you. 

he'll regret it… its his loss… 
dont be his good girl anymore.. try your hardest to never speak to him again. 


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I knew he had to be white

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all jokes aside...i hope you can see now that he is full of excrement (tell him to look it up Smile).
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

I knew he had to be white



how? why?
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