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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

yes he is white and he did go to meet the lady. I am heartbroken

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all jokes aside.. 
why didnt you tell him not to go? and that it bothered you? 


I did before I posted this thread. He said that she's just a friend and how can I expect him not help someone who has confided in him.

because… it makes you uncomfortable because shes talked about sex and invited him over… 

will there be any repercussions for him going against your wishes? or are you just going to act like it didnt happen? 



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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

He also had this to say:

You pitched me against a bunch of… what’s her name? Nene’s? I thought these girls were in the UK. Ahh but now it makes sense!
 
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Yeeeeeah, dump his racist flat arse. Let him go have picnics with a married woman with kids. Dead


Does the husband know he is playing 2nd fiddle to a lame student yet?


ETA: A break? He's racist.Confused


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thats definitely better than nothing.. 

what did he have to say about the break? was he mad? did he try to change your mind? 
he wasnt like, 'okay, nvm… i wont go if it bothers you that much' ? 

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Gotta watch out for those smart sounding men. Sometimes they're worse than the thugs.
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Awwe I feel bad for Jacy
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Yeah all jokes aside, he is not good for you. I've dated a man just like that before and they will make you feel guilty about all the things that are common sense. He should'nt have gone because his allegiance lies with you, not this woman who STILL has her man.
 
Calling women on a black forum "Nene's" is also offensive and speaks volumes on what kind of man he truly is. I hope you see it because quite honestly this is your life to live and have and enjoy. Not ours. The fact that ppl even went out of their way to give you some REAL advice (prior to the clowning) should tell you something.
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I hope you mean a break forever because no mama...he is HORRIBLE. HORRIBLE.

You are worth too much to deal with a racist, controlling, gaslighting, abuser (bc believe me he's already on the way there).


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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Did anyone tell her they already and she finna be single? If not.....


They already and you finna be single.



Called it.....Sorry honey.....and he is a closet racist too. A bunch of Nene's? I bet the friend is white....girl get you some chocolate.......he aint putting it down.......all the verbiage.....nah he aint.....
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

thats definitely better than nothing.. 

what did he have to say about the break? was he mad? did he try to change your mind? 
he wasnt like, 'okay, nvm… i wont go if it bothers you that much' ? 



He wasn't happy about it and insisted that he'll call me every day to see how I'm doing
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Did anyone tell her they already and she finna be single? If not.....


They already and you finna be single.



Called it.....Sorry honey.....and he is a closet racist too. A bunch of Nene's? I bet the friend is white....girl get you some chocolate.......he aint putting it down.......all the verbiage.....nah he aint.....


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