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    Posted: Jun 11 2014 at 5:07pm

Hi ladies,

I need to ask you for your advice on an issue I’m having with my current boo.

So he’s at college right now in his second year. In his first year of studies, he was in a study group with his lady who is 6 years older than him and married. They had as friendly as a relationship needed with someone who is in a study group but they didn’t maintain contact over summer.

She has recently been contacting him and after an exam which they both had she invited him to her flat which is opposite their exam centre. I personally would not invite another man to my home if I was married but hey that’s just me. Anyways when he was at her flat she told him she was having problems with her marriage, that she is seeking to get a divorce during the summer and she told my boo that her husband doesn’t please him sexually. I don’t understand why a woman would tell another man who she has barely been in contact with about the state of her sexual life with another man. I think that is just so disrespectful. He came home and told me about it, we both agreed she

Anyways, she recently FB’d my bf inviting him to go for a picnic, just the both of them. In the FB convo, she asked him lots of questions about his life, his family and even sent  10 pics of her family to him

I don’t think he should go. Thoughts?

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hmmmm does she know about you
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he shouldnt go… duh.

delete before its too late
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She wants to fukk & Your BOO is entertaining it get it under control soon or she might have a new daddy for her kids.
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*waits for the relationship brigade to come in*

*hey Carolina this tea is very good*Wink
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Of course he shouldn't go. He should cut her off.
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Yes,she knows he has a girlfriend
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Originally posted by jacy_babi jacy_babi wrote:

Hi ladies,

I need to ask you for your advice on an issue I’m having with my current boo.

So he’s at college right now in his second year. In his first year of studies, he was in a study group with his lady who is 6 years older than him and married. They had as friendly as a relationship needed with someone who is in a study group but they didn’t maintain contact over summer.

She has recently been contacting him and after an exam which they both had she invited him to her flat which is opposite their exam centre. I personally would not invite another man to my home if I was married but hey that’s just me. Anyways when he was at her flat she told him she was having problems with her marriage, that she is seeking to get a divorce during the summer and she told my boo that her husband doesn’t please him sexually. I don’t understand why a woman would tell another man who she has barely been in contact with about the state of her sexual life with another man. I think that is just so disrespectful. He came home and told me about it, we both agreed she

Anyways, she recently FB’d my bf inviting him to go for a picnic, just the both of them. In the FB convo, she asked him lots of questions about his life, his family and even sent  10 pics of her family to him

I don’t think he should go. Thoughts?



There's no reason for him to want to go unless he's interested in her.

So if he goes, you already know what the deal is. Someone who is not interested in there being any confusion would clearly let her know that they are not friends and not to contact him in any way.

Look at what he does and don't let yourself get caught up in drama.
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you don't get why she told him?

she wants to have sex with him
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She also called him hun and sent him kisses
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