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Originally posted by Naturalchick30 Naturalchick30 wrote:

Clear folks been trying it lately. Last year I wore a kinky curly u-part to work and got compliments on how cute it was how I should wear my hair out more often. They were shocked when I told them it was a wig. One day we're in a meeting and the manager complimented my hair and this one white chick said "oh I knew it was a wig. Your kind of hair can't grow that long."


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SEE they be trying us to see our reaction....i swear they do this ish on purpose...


Your kind of hair can't grow that long.;..the angry part is you were in a meeting with your manager  when she said that and u didn't want to stoop down to her level with a remark cause you  are a bigger person than she is or will ever be...sounds like you just K.I.M.
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Originally posted by csungrl09 csungrl09 wrote:

I have one white friend who constantly does this....trying to figure out if I have a weave or a wig on this week Dead



but they r being so bold about it...no discretion whatsoever...
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Originally posted by DiorShowGirl DiorShowGirl wrote:

Originally posted by Naturalchick30 Naturalchick30 wrote:

Clear folks been trying it lately. Last year I wore a kinky curly u-part to work and got compliments on how cute it was how I should wear my hair out more often. They were shocked when I told them it was a wig. One day we're in a meeting and the manager complimented my hair and this one white chick said "oh I knew it was a wig. Your kind of hair can't grow that long."



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SEE they be trying us to see our reaction....i swear they do this ish on purpose...


Your kind of hair can't grow that long.;..the angry part is you were in a meeting with your manager  when she said that and u didn't want to stoop down to her level with a remark cause you  are a bigger person than she is or will ever be...sounds like you just K.I.M.

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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

OP you know doggone well that wigs looks like the my name is "Marsha from the witness protection program" wig.
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I wear different wigs and weave all the time and I wish someone would ask me about my hair.



that is as close a style i can post on here...lol...its not like i came in with 22" down my back when my little knot on my head is the size  of a thumbprint...LOL
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Y'all better learn how to play the game. You can only hurt white people in their pockets. Immediately start getting large crocodile tears and run to hr. No business wants that kind of publicity. Trust me they wouldn't  ignore it.  That ass would be crying in the supervisor office. 
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Originally posted by Naturalchick30 Naturalchick30 wrote:

Clear folks been trying it lately. Last year I wore a kinky curly u-part to work and got compliments on how cute it was how I should wear my hair out more often. They were shocked when I told them it was a wig. One day we're in a meeting and the manager complimented my hair and this one white chick said "oh I knew it was a wig. Your kind of hair can't grow that long."
Based on that last statement and the setting(the meeting), that was someone trying to shame you and making a racial insult. The Op had on an obvious wig and someone commented on it(they could have just been curious about it/idk their relationship or the tone ot was said in). Yt women wear wigs too. I was just in the hair store and this Yt latina was showing me the wig she had on.

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Also how different does the wig look from your hair? Is it a drastic difference? Did u really look younger? Some styles can do that and also choose your battles wisely. A complaint like this from ine of my employees would makeme look at them like "ho are u in middle school?" I would probably handle it though. The best bet would have been to nip it in the bud at that moment though and not in a yelling/cursing manner.
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Everything in this thread is why I don't like talking about hair things with white people ever.  What is the best way to handle something like this really...you go off on them and "school" them you look crazy...if you don't say anything they see it as weakness and they just keep doing it.
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Originally posted by Lilaca Lilaca wrote:

Originally posted by Naturalchick30 Naturalchick30 wrote:

Clear folks been trying it lately. Last year I wore a kinky curly u-part to work and got compliments on how cute it was how I should wear my hair out more often. They were shocked when I told them it was a wig. One day we're in a meeting and the manager complimented my hair and this one white chick said "oh I knew it was a wig. Your kind of hair can't grow that long."
@ at the ghost coloured bish

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hmmmm....

I have a white hispanic co-worker who wear wigs.  Obvious wigs.  No one says anything. Why? because it's rude and could possibly be sued if they do.  It seems black women are the only ones expected to take the bullsh*t (from everyone white, black, other) and not take it personal when it is a low to the ground shading.   If they're going to speak on it there is no reason to yell.   All they had to say "is that a new hairstyle, it makes u look 10 years younger."  if they were going to say anything.
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