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Are people really going to HR because colleagues commented on a wig?  A wig is an accessory.  Would you file an HR complaint if she commented on your earrings?   Nothing derogatory was said.  What would the complaint look like?

"They noticed I was wearing fake hair and said it  looked nice.  The fact that they noticed my fake hair was not growing from my scalp is leading to a hostile work environment."

Edited for pre-coffee typos.




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Some of y'all are really sensitive.
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Nope but if the tables were turned Dior would be called into a meeting with her managers the next  the same day, and accused of bullying a coworker....and those lovely salty tears would be flowing.
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That was most likely an attentional back handed compliment and you were advised well to report her.
That was an insensitive thing to announce.


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Originally posted by Xamaycana Xamaycana wrote:

Are people really going to HR because colleagues commented on a wig?  A wig is an accessory.  Would you file an HR complaint if she commented on your earrings?   Nothing derogatory was said.  What would the complaint look like?

"They noticed I was wearing fake hair and said looked nice.  The fact that they noticed my face hair was not growing from my scalp is leading to a hostile work environment."




the point is they said it OUT LOUD...for the world to hear...no couth whatsoever...it is not like they whispered it and of course i would say yes it is a wig and thank you...I am not going to HR for this. Their Management named Karen...it is all about T.A.C.T...if they do this once , then they would do it again...

one time a tech yelled, I MEAN YELLED out loud in a patient, staff,EMT area.." I LOVE YOUR WIG.. I mean the looks i received from folks...I gave her the most god awful look and i just walked away to the back. (This happened in the emergency room) this was 12 years ago...

Well this chick comes running to the back and started with the I wish i could wear those and so on...i knew she knew i was hot and i absolutely ignored her for the longest..
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there is this switchboard operator who wears a wig....I never asked but you could tell cause her own hair was whiter than white and she was losing it so much u can actually see her scalp..but did i get all up on her and say out loud I LOVE YOUR WIG....no i just complimented on how great she looks cause she got the gastric surgery and lost all of this weight and she looks fantastic so much i seriously didn't recognize her until she mentioned who she was...I complimented her from her hair to the new way she dresses...she proceeded to tell me of her hair dilemma...i just told her at least u got ur health in order and u look stunning...this was a private conversation...


there is just a way u do things tactfully..
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Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:

Nope but if the tables were turned Dior would be called into a meeting with her managers the next  the same day, and accused of bullying a coworker....and those lovely salty tears would be flowing.



Y.E.S...their manager and my manager...both ends...then side eyed by those females to no end..
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Originally posted by Xamaycana Xamaycana wrote:

Are people really going to HR because colleagues commented on a wig?  A wig is an accessory.  Would you file an HR complaint if she commented on your earrings?   Nothing derogatory was said.  What would the complaint look like?

"They noticed I was wearing fake hair and said it  looked nice.  The fact that they noticed my fake hair was not growing from my scalp is leading to a hostile work environment."

Edited for pre-coffee typos.




i think those comments about going to HR were drenched in sarcasm.  theres been other threads about yt women going to HR/Bosses over very trivial matters.
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op, blame wendy williams.
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