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Ladybird0724
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 5:51pm |
congrats! that is awesome!
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sbrownie84
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 5:55pm |
Thank you..well I am getting a lot of compliments. I have noticed that most of my bigger friends do not comment at all. Most people are telling me that I look great, and I am wondering if i looked so horrible before. It's just a surprise how people are hooked on looks.
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sbrownie84
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 5:56pm |
Thank you..well I am getting a lot of compliments. I have noticed that most of my bigger friends do not comment at all. Most people are telling me that I look great, and I am wondering if i looked so horrible before. It's just a surprise how people are hooked on looks. I am taking a a mental note of the men that I attracted after i gained all of the weight who were very mean to me.
We live in a very superficial world.
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joileprincess
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 6:40pm |
sbrownie84 wrote:
Thank you..well I am getting a lot of compliments. I have noticed that most of my bigger friends do not comment at all. Most people are telling me that I look great, and I am wondering if i looked so horrible before. It's just a surprise how people are hooked on looks. I am taking a a mental note of the men that I attracted after i gained all of the weight who were very mean to me.
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It might not be that you looked horrible before but some people do not carry weight well in their faces. It distorts the features in a non-flattering way for some. And whatever about the big friends not commenting. The ones who are your real friends will be happy for you and even use you as inspiration. The others will reveal themselves and/or drop off. A lot of people go through this. It exposes their insecurities and no one likes that. Anyway, add it to your lbs lost and keep it pushing.
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sbrownie84
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 7:17pm |
joileprincess wrote:
sbrownie84 wrote:
Thank you..well I am getting a lot of compliments. I have noticed that most of my bigger friends do not comment at all. Most people are telling me that I look great, and I am wondering if i looked so horrible before. It's just a surprise how people are hooked on looks. I am taking a a mental note of the men that I attracted after i gained all of the weight who were very mean to me.
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It might not be that you looked horrible before but some people do not carry weight well in their faces. It distorts the features in a non-flattering way for some.
And whatever about the big friends not commenting. The ones who are your real friends will be happy for you and even use you as inspiration. The others will reveal themselves and/or drop off. A lot of people go through this. It exposes their insecurities and no one likes that. Anyway, add it to your lbs lost and keep it pushing.
jolieprincess, you are too sweet.
You and rickysrose are two of my favorite posters. thank you both for your inspiration.
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MissinCali
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 7:57pm |
I am down 48lbs I get nothing but positive feedback, some of my cousins say nothing at all they act like they don't even notice it. but they are all of a sudden in the gym cus they know I am catching up to them
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chinadoll77
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 8:02pm |
Congrats,I lost 75 lbs,people noticed that my breast were smaller...
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SoutherNtellect
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 8:02pm |
congratulations i was told I had gotten too skinny, i was no longer "thick" which was a disappointment to some men. at the end of the day you can only please yourself not everyone else
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EPITOME
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Joined: Feb 08 2007
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 8:10pm |
congrats! when I am thin, I look and feel better and I am sure that translates to more confidence. my dh doesn't mind me bigger but i need to lose this weight. i like being small. i dont like being thick and i don't really want to buy new clothes. 
Edited by EPITOME - Nov 07 2012 at 8:15pm
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jonesable
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Posted: Nov 07 2012 at 8:11pm |
Congrats to everyone who lost weight!!!
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