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I think that age gap is so grossDead
 
it reeks of desperation & dysfunction. 
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Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:


I think that age gap is so grossDead
 
it reeks of desperation & dysfunction. 


that's rough
I date guys from my age up to 36
It's not that terrible

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GG, everything I'm possibly thinking has already been said so I'll say this If you are so persistant in thinking he may be a good man DO NOT rush into anything. The most i say is being his friend and I do mean platonic friend for a few yrs and then you can judge and move on from then.

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Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:


I think that age gap is so grossDead
 
it reeks of desperation & dysfunction. 


that's rough
I date guys from my age up to 36
It's not that terrible
in my rules of dating, a man must always be older, but not more than 10 yrs her senior.  preferably 1-5 yrs is a good match.  If he is more than 10 yrs, I question why they aren't dating their own age group.   & I really dislike old men preying on young girls & vice versa. 
 
But go ahead & live ur life.  I do hope u r on bc, cuz this guy seems like a creep.  You've only known him for a few weeks & this is too much drama.  ia with meeting the wife, cuz it seems like he's hiding sh*t & keeping secrets.  U also claim to not have him hit it yet, well... if he aint getting it from u, he's getting it from somewhere.  Confused
 
sheeeiiiit
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Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:


I think that age gap is so grossDead
 
it reeks of desperation & dysfunction. 


that's rough
I date guys from my age up to 36
It's not that terrible

in my rules of dating, a man must always be older, but not more than 10 yrs her senior.  preferably 1-5 yrs is a good match.  If he is more than 10 yrs, I question why they aren't dating their own age group.   & I really dislike old men preying on young girls & vice versa. 
 
But go ahead & live ur life.  I do hope u r on bc, cuz this guy seems like a creep.  You've only known him for a few weeks & this is too much drama.  ia with meeting the wife, cuz it seems like he's hiding sh*t & keeping secrets.  U also claim to not have him hit it yet, well... if he aint getting it from u, he's getting it from somewhere.  Confused
 
sheeeiiiit


I hear you about the creepy old guy thing but to me, the creepy men are in their 40s and 50s. Those are guys who I hear talking about women in their age group are unattractive as if they're better than someone.
I just met him, it hasn't been a month yet but if he is looking for sex I'm not in a rush to give it to him.
We have only been in the talking phase. I haven't given thought to a full fledged relationship.
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well if that's ur only option....
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Everyones telling u the the same sh*t.
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Please consider the history and connection that he has with his "ex" in relation to the 6 months that they have been separated. 4 children with the same woman spanning from 18 yrs to 6yrs old. That is a lot of history and possibly a lot of drama and ba ge. He's been with her since he was a teenager. That probably also plays into how the family feels about him dating an why they won't help him with childcare to do so. At the very least they probably want to stay out of it.
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I appreciate the opinions that everyone has left here and I definitely take them into consideration. As it stands nothing has really happened and it hasn't gone much of anywhere.
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sooooooooooooooooooo  i'm nosey.  when is the next date?
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