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6 months? don't do it, girl don't do it (drake voice)
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Welp.

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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

he's on the road a lot...he only pays child support to someone he was with for at least 18 years...i don't trust this guy.

and gkisses, same here...i've been asked, "how many kids do you have?", rather than "do you have any kids?"
 
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Had i known what i known i would have dipped too maybe idk.
 
I came to his city one weekend and told him we should take his nieces and nephews to the movies. Cute idea huh.
its five of them so he planned to pay for us and he knew the kids would want movie food. We went to pick up the kids how about his brother hopped in too .my so paid for him too.
 
Then we went to the mall and he gor each child a toy why dis the brother bust up at the coubter with items too!!!
 
Girl i saw the signs.
 
im rantinf too.
 
his brother thinks my So credit card is his too.And has it plenty times. Of course he is on my boos phone bill and nvm uts just amess.
 
but,my so isnt bothered at ll.
si dont get it


Edited by jonesable - Nov 02 2013 at 8:23pm
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4 kids. They've only been a part 6 months? Girl please...he's still hitting it raw and all his travel is right to her house to be with his real family. You wouldn't be anything but the side piece.

Run the hell away. RUN.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Had i known what i known i would have dipped too maybe idk.
 
I came to his city one weekend and told him we should take his nieces and nephews to the movies. Cute idea huh.
its five of them so he planned to pay for us and he knew the kids would want movie food. We went to pick up the kids how about his brother hopped in too .my so paid for him too.
 
Then we went to the mall and he gor each child a toy why dis the brother bust up at the coubter with items too!!!
 
Girl i saw the signs


It sound like you're with him out of love and you can definitely put your foot down. At the end of the day they aren't his kids anyway. He's just helping.
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

4 kids. They've only been a part 6 months? Girl please...he's still
hitting it raw and all his travel is right to her house to be with his
real family. You wouldn't be anything but the side piece.

Run the hell away. RUN.



What makes you think he's still sleeping with her?
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how often does he have his children btw?  assuming you're going to stick with him, why can't you guys just go on dates when she has the kids?  plus, can't the teenager just watch their younger siblings for a few hours out?  is it tacky to ask the 17 yr old to babysit while dad goes on a date?  idk.  i think it's tacky to go on dates on the nights you have your kids if you only get them every other weekend or something.
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Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

6 months? don't do it, girl don't do it (drake voice)
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Girl, they aren't even broken up.

And if they are it's just a "trial" separation...and clearly their last separation ended up with her pregnant.

Don't be stupid.
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