| Gkisses wrote:|
| GG wrote:|
I don't know if it truly means they can never put me first. This may not always be a problem.
If hes a good dad you will never come first... nothing against you but thats just how i feel and u shouldnt expect that to change...His kids are/should be his top priority time with u is automatically secondary.
Exactly. With money, his budget is always going to be centered around his basic needs first and then his kids. Their food, clothes, activity fees, etc and saving for their futures. That leaves little left over for whatever financial goals you two may have together.
And time wise...a person can never spend too much time with their kids, especially if they're already splitting custody. And, for example, in the future if his daughter has a child with a deadbeat and needs a place to stay he's going to offer it whether you want to live with her and a newborn or not.
I'm just saying, I can't think of a situation where they don't come before you. Some people are cool with that though.