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nitabug 
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 Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:39pm |
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Being selfish isn't always bad. I'd hyphenate because of the history of my lastname and the importance I feel is placed in it.
simple as that.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:40pm |
i'm takin my man's name. i don't like the whole not taking your husband's name.
if i were a man, i wouldn't allow it. but if both of them are fine with it, i don't care.
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I wouldn't hyphenate though I'd just move my surname and get rid of my middle name
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:41pm |
 nitabug wrote:
Being selfish isn't always bad. I'd hyphenate because of the history of my lastname and the importance I feel is placed in it.
simple as that.
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thats cool, though.
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nitabug
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:42pm |
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I might change my name and unless his is better than the change, I'm keeping it.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:45pm |
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the history thing was said too, and he summed it up perfectly
So when u ladies get married, and your last name is changed to his,
you're not a part of your family anymore? The history isn't still there?
History doesn't give a fucc about your last name. Your last name doesn't define your history.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:46pm |
if someone places importance on their history, then they would want their children to bear that name... with all the history that it contains. i get that.
especially if you're a family of few men who can pass on your last name.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:46pm |
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That nicca can suck me and my daddy's dck. I stand by what I said.
I hope that sums it up perfectly.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:48pm |
Ill probably be taking my husbands last name.. But I certainly don't think that women who don't are selfish. That's just kinda a crazy assumption to me.
But then again, I don't seem to care about strangers relationships like others do.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 2:49pm |
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I dont see how hyphenating equates to wanting to wear the pants but okay. If anything I think men these days think of women who want to be "independent" (i.e. women who would rather work more than be home with the kids, etc.) as the type who wants to wear the pants. And like nita said aint nothing wrong with a little bit of selfishness. There is more to a marriage than a last name honey if not taking the man's last name is all it takes to break up a marriage then that marriage probably needed working on to begin with.
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