| jonesable wrote:|
he just said he loves it when i dresss up for him and likes seeing me all done up when we go out.
| Lite Brite wrote:|
Aww, Jones! I can definitely see how that's hurtful.. did he straight up say " I dont like that you took your wig off"??? or you could just tell by the ladylike comment?
and was he saying you need to act more ladylike by not doing those kinds of things in front of him.. or that it overall ruined your feminine appeal for him for good?
He said maybe i could have waited until we got to his place to put on the bump cream
I did it in the parking lot.
I think my feminity is ruined from that, I dont think he does though.
But I do so now hes getting a whole lot of attitude from me.
help me LB
LOL @ the parking lot. Ok so really it sounds like he's concerned with your public appearance. He
loves you and thinks youre great, but he doesnt want outsiders seeing his girl with white bump cream all over her face. He wants them to see you as he does. That's understandable right?. Same goes for looking decent when yall go out. If youre looking rough all the time, it could be kind of embarrassing for him to be out with you, cause he wants them to see his girl as looking good (kind of harsh, but I get it lol)
And I think he's being honest, it's not ruined for him. Just don't sh*t with the door open or change your tampon around him
.. Lol my friend does this .
And DROP the attitude, I know it's embarrassing/hurtful.. but you gotta move on! Also if he's expecting you to wear heels everyday and never be in a jeans and a t-shirt, he needs to re-evaluate his life. BUT if you think its ok to wear basketball shorts and a messed up head around him in public all the time...
Edited by Lite Brite - Nov 17 2012 at 12:46pm