| tatee wrote:|
theres something ive been wanting to think about when get a minute that these women i was with on saturday made me think of.
why dont women have the right to think of themselves as beautiful even if no one else does?
they do but alot of other women don't like that they do. At least from what I've seen and what i've heard/read women say.
Folks talk a good game but they don't really mean it. One of my closest family members is very judgemental of other women. Anytime we're out she got something to say about everybody on the street. Talmbout damn American's are fat (cause she's in school overseas). I'm thinking girl please because you're so much smaller? You're a size 5 in the 2014? Or one time we were walking in the park enjoying the day and she felt the need to say summin' about the girl walking in front of us. Talmbout how she so skinny fat (cause her ass was wiggling) and she don't understand why guys would rather have that then this and on on she goes. I mean...this girl did nothing to us. Just out enjoying the day like everybody else.
Or pointing out to me how that black girl over there got on too much make up and why she feel the need to wear all that weave etc etc? That one I was like Super Girl Please. A couple of years ago you stayed decked to the nine's full face, wig wearing, paying $500 to get your weave done on Newbury St, wearing puffy skirts and gloves (she was into 50's style) no pants, you threw out all your jeans, buying fur on Ebay n'sh*t. Now because you figured enough black women are natural now it's safe for you to do so now you judgin' other women on the sh*t u used to do...Uggghhh!! I now lowkey let her know she's being unnecessarily fucced up. All I say is...whateves, I don't judge. Or I say nothing. My silence apparently speaks a thousand words cause she'll usually rein it in and finish with a lame "i'm just sayin' ". The way she talks about women...I sometimes think that's why she can't get her own weight down.
Sorry for all the words but this was actually on my mind a few days ago.
Edited by newdiva1 - Jul 08 2014 at 3:17am