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As hell!

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My bae comes first

All day errrday
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omg

im in love!!

http://grovemade.com/collections/walnut-desk-collection

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my mom scared me last night
she was crying hysterically saying we didn't love her and if we didn't let her go die...

i thought she was just a sad drunk but i see shes way more messed up, depressed even. 
i just told her i loved her and she needs to stop talking like that

then she was sad about my gma who passed 5 years ago and how she wanted to see her again.
and then brought up that my brother has a job now and living for him.

i mean isn't this supposed to be something to be happy for? my brother having a job is good
but i felt she said that like he's growing up and soon he'll leave her
and soon i will too....

like, how am i supposed to try and leave out of state for school when she cries at the thought if we leave her, we don't love her. like, how do i not feel guilty for living my own life while i feel im making her feel that way
idk what to do. she woke up earlier with her eyes all cried out. im just really worried and her bf doesn't seem to pay her any mind when shes acting like this

but i feel like she the person she is when she's sober isn't really who she is. shes sad and depressed and idk how to deal. im the only one that went to check on her when i heard her cry... 
i dont know what to do, it seems like anything i do its going to hurt her regardless

and i dont like talking to her when shes like that. Ouch


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wow...all I'm gonna say is that she needs professional help

...you shouldn't feel guilty about living your life at all cos at the end of the day, she's the only one in control of her actions and decisions
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

omg

im in love!!

http://grovemade.com/collections/walnut-desk-collection
nice! and affordable too...
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Unfoolish, imma keep it short and sweet:

Addiction is selfish
She won't be happy for you because there will be fewer people around to enable her
Her feelings are not YOUR responsibility/problem
She's not going to change until sh¡t gets real for her in SOME capacity
Until she decides to change, you will ALWAYS be second or third or whatever number in line

If you've not already, please find some info about AA meetings for relatives/friends of alcoholics. Meetings could help to get things off your chest, build a support system IRL and see how you're not alone in how you feel.

Pardon me…
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Good morning people!!

Ugh-- last day in NYC & the weather is just gorgeous!!

It's almost Christmas in July!!
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Yes, the weather is beautiful today

Perfect day for BBQ and sangria  *licks lips*
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yeah i know her feelings aren't my problem personally but i feel guilty for treating her like sh*t when shes like that. it doesn't help. but what if when i don't watch for her feelings, she takes her life? 

shes not going to get professional help, thats the last thing she'll do
she'll hide everything on the surface til it comes out in the worst way possible

shes had problems way before my gma passed but at least when she was here she knew what to do with her. 
my mom has friends thats helped her with sh*t but she has too much pride... guess it runs in the family




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