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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


no one wanted to humor me on here I see lol


your comment was one of the first i read this morning and i didnt even take that you wanted a response.  i did put it on the back burner in my mind to think about later. 

the bad thing about me shelving things for later is that yeah i'll always come back to it but will it be 10 minutes or 10 monthsLOL
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lol

part of me is like well maybe they would actually speak positively about the person to offset the difference in their behavior and their attitude

but maybe speaking negatively allows them to hang around but still hold true to how they really feel

like I know I can't stand this bitch and I know I hate being with her but being able to belittle her around other people lets me get my negative emotions out that I have to hide while I am around her

of course there are other explanations but I just thought about this this morning and
wondered if it made sense to anyone else

I find cognitive dissonance fascinating

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Does she know you don't like her?
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lol this isn't about me

I don't spend time around people I don't like unless I have to work with them

I don't have this problem that's why I am trying understand different reasons why people do it

recently at work I have noticed how some people I talk to are like this and it the same behavior I have seen with people I know or knew outside of work
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote HeyBeautiful18 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 13 2014 at 10:09am
Ohh okay I was gonna say... um.. why do you spend your time with someone you don't like

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lol

I'm trying to see if gossip is a coping mechanism, so to speak
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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

India sorry to hear about your family member passing away. RIP

I think im due for my Pap this month or was it last month, the gyno didnt call so maybe it's this month. thank you for the reminder also the breast health issue thread INdia

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i swear i got caught up in that KFC article, trying to find out if it was a hoax and apparently its notLOL
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


lol

I'm trying to see if gossip is a coping mechanism, so to speak


i think gossip in this case would be a coping mechanism whether or not it was positive or negative.  especially when you are dealing with work dynamics because the underling factor is fear. the same may be true with any social relationship where fear of loss is a possibility.

what is stumping me is if gossip in general  is a coping mechanism. do we gossip to put ourselves at ease, or to preserve our social standing?

i need to think more about it.

i have this theory that most things in life are somehow connected to fear so i always come from that angle first.LOL


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after that last run that took me out for 2 day, im kinda afraid to hit the pavement.  i really need to.
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