I really don't understand my friend. She wanted help with her stat homework due at midnight.. no problem. I told her I have a test tomorrow but I can make time at 4 and/or at 9. What is she doing then? Nothing. 4 comes along but she's at her friends house. 9 comes along.. still at her friends house.
At 1:15 she blows up my phone asking where I am, can she come, can I help. I don't have good service in the library so I have to keep going down stairs to call/text her back. She keeps calling saying she will come in a few... Well she finally came and asked if I was busy.. And im like uhh kinda but I will help if you need it.
"Nevermind I'm done, Im going back home"
Im willing to help. I always have been always will be. But don't inconvenience me and then change your mind about wanting to put in the work.