Hey suga jr!!
For me, I have 2 choices: detangle wet or dry. Either way, it's a mix.
If dry: I'll do something similar to what alibis posted a few pages ago. Fill a spray bottle about halfway with rainwater I've collected (our water is hard here) and add a lil bit of infusium23, some triple moisture conditioner & olive oil. Shake it up well and spray on the sections while I do my thing.
If wet: I'll section for twists and apply this mix I saw on yt awhile back:
1oz (2tbs)-- kinky curly knot today
2tbs-- whole leaf aloe vera juice
2tsp-- jojoba oil
2tsp-- castor oil
After that, use soft hands and take your time. They all worked for me.