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"Like you should care about how you carry yourself...but then again the opinions of everyone doesn't really matter"

That pretty much seems it up. lol
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I guess people's opinion of me? I know the people tend to judge themselves off of intentions but others judge you based on actions. Like for example, Im not the best socially so I tend to stay quiet when meeting someone (generally, not always). I know it's because Im shy, but I wonder if people think I don't care to talk to them or something. Because that's not the case, but If that's what Im projecting I need to change that. Another example, my friend told me Im intimidaing, like Im not to be messed with.. Im sitting here like reallyConfused. You guys think you have a good grasp on how people see you?

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote _ConcreteRose_ Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 27 2014 at 8:57pm
But other people's opinions of you really do matter in certain situations. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote HeyBeautiful18 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 27 2014 at 8:58pm
Lol yea after I typed that I just realized I summed it up

I'm so good
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote nekamarie83 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 27 2014 at 9:03pm
Originally posted by _ConcreteRose_ _ConcreteRose_ wrote:

 You guys think you have a good grasp on how people see you?
i laughed so loud at this, then: Stern Smile yes.

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hmm. that's a sticky wicket. one could make it a point to project abc, but people will interpret what they want how they want and justify doing so and see xyz. 

it's kinda like pleasing all the people all of the time. not everyone will pick up what you're puttin down. 
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HB, you sound arrogant.

Seriously, I don't think I have a good grasp of what people think of me.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Senior Detective Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 27 2014 at 9:09pm
can  somebody do a thread on  Dr. Phoenyx Austin .  I am surprised nobody here talks about her hair, books or her fitness
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the latest i can get out of here for a direct flight home is at 7:15am! the fck? should i gone take my ass to bed now or sleep in and hop the flight to ord then to atl? decisions decisions...
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Hmm, HB is a Bikini Bottom and a few days ago, Ice was at the Salty Spitoon a few days ago.
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I think my grasp is good enough? lol I know how people perceive me but I've never been concerned about it since I got out of HS. I have to work on perception in professional settings with clients but outside of that, as long as I'm not being hurtful to others I do not feel I need to change.

Everyone is going to have a different perspective on how you come off depending on how they as individuals view people. From what I know (thanks BHM!) you don't seem like you need to adjust anything. You're not mean, passive/aggressive, ignorant or any other negative adjective I can think of. Intimidating? Smh. Maybe because you're a confident Black woman and they feel inferior to you? This makes them feel the need to up their own self-confidence? Either way I wouldn't take it as a negative.
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