using names does make little comments better because it brings opportunity for improvement..
its direct, not underhanded and phony. If i know someone feels a way about me i will ask them why and that can bring about resolving problems or clarifying issues...
and i said that to neka in the confessions thread because there was a time that she made a subliminal comment and i PM'd her and she admitted it was about me... i wasnt being underhanded.. i was direct and attempted to resolve the issue like an adult.
neka and i havent been cool for a while... you have no idea what youre talking about.
and i dont act like im the victim.. i own up to most that i say/do.. i know im not perfect and i admit my flaws daily... but ppl need to admit theres as well.. im always open to resolution but ppl would rather have their catty/subliminal comments rather than address/tackle the issue head on.
Edited by coconess - Jan 23 2014 at 12:40pm