so im realizing i have this issue where if i feel like someone in my life is slacking when it comes to our relationship, i will bring it to their attention, its brushed off, i get angry, bring it to their attention again, using a more brash approach, ppl get their lives, but im mad because it shouldnt have had to be that way in the first place.
then im annoyed because i know the only reason they are attempting to fix the issue is because they dont want me to leave their life, not because they know/feel like what they were doing was wrong.
Then eventually they slip back into their old ways and i end up cutting them off.
then im the bad guy
anybody else have this happen?