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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

If I were to vacay in London....what area should I stay in?
what's your budget?
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

ugh.. 

i say i want this strong, masculine, dominant dude.. 
but when i cuss at him and he tries to check me about talkin to him a certain way i don't like it… i do but i don't. 
i need to figure out what i want. i think i want someone who will make me be submissive cus I'm very dominant if i can be.. but when he relaxes and is a little sweeter i get more dominant… which makes him get way more dominant.. its like this fight for power.. and he feels like I'm trying to take advantage of him being sweeter.. but i don't think i wanna fight for power.. i want him to be in power.. but i can't help it. I'm just hella bossy and a certain way… my mouth says one thing but my actions say another. 

on one side i feel like, 'over stepping my boundaries..? negro i don't have any boundaries TF up, ill get at you how i see fit if i don't like what u say to me" but on the other side i like that… but he had a point.. he was like if i cussed at you you would have had a huge issue.. give me the same respect. 

maybe i just need a super nice soft guy Dead
my whole life.. ppl always told me thats the kinda guy i need to end up with. i don't want that though.  
dominant =/= rude

either way I think you two need to sit down and really talk things out

and @ the bolded--super soft to the point where they have no backbone? I can't stand people like that..not just with guys either.
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he wasn't rude.. although he has been before when i made him mad but I've got that in check. 

but he started with, 'forreal watch the way you talk to me… don't over step your boundaries..' 
lol i don't take those kinda sentences well… but like i said in my updated post.. i wussied down and said i didnt need to cuss.. cus he had a point. but on the other side i don't like being told that i have boundaries.. 

but yea, we've talked and talked and talked… 
he's really trying work on the things I've complained about.. so ill work on that and not cuss when he says things i don't like. 

but yea.. ppl always tell me i need a guy that i can run all over.. 'some white guy' 
that is kinda a turnoff though 


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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

If I were to vacay in London....what area should I stay in?
what's your budget?

It's whateva I gets the chedda.

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Iyanla needs to fix your life Coco.
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Iyanla needs to fix your life Coco.


Gurl. . .
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idk who iyanla is 
but i don't need her to fix shiit. 
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