im not very friendly unless a person intrigues me.. plus ive been told that im not a nice person. (my exbff used to say that i do nice things.. but im not nice. she also said im a bish and an asshole)
I just asked someone else if im nice and they said, 'overall yea.. but you can be mean, it depends'
it can depend a lot on if i like you or not... if i dont like a person they'll probably hate me..
but yea i think they either read me wrong.. or i come off stuck up and standoffish.. or i come off like an asshole (im blunt, opinionated, outspoken, and i dont sugar coat much.. it can come off rudely) or.. they didnt get to see my true personality (im not very receptive with most though unless im interested)
everyone will have ppl that dislikes them.. its normal. but these ppl who are kinda relentless for several months to a few years.. when they see im not receptive... i dont get it.
i think i hold back on bhm..