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Originally posted by mommykat mommykat wrote:

I know its only a few hours however, hes never been alone without family.
I told my hubby that we should just keep him home for one more year. But hes not having it . I hope I feel better about this.
i request the highest of 5s from your husband.  it's an adjustment like anything, but he'll love it once he gets into it.  and when you see that he's having a good time, you'll feel that much better and comfortable about it. 

he'll learn, meet new little friends, sing songs and be so excited to come home and tell you about his little man day at work!! awwwwww!!  

and while i'm not a parent, i know how it it feels on a level. i'm the oldest of my cousins and one in particular (she was born when i was 11), i tear up when i think of how time flew. i remember her being born, teaching her numbers and colors, potty training and when she started school. 

the girl graduated from hs last year. smh. 

i can't have kids, but i find them to be such beautiful, independent works of art. 
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I couldn't help it Ash.LOL


Neka, if the stars align properly you should adopt. You'd make a great mom.

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Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Lies you tell lol
[fred] just take the compliment ya big dummy!![/sanford]  
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Neka, I've heard Ash's voice...
HAAAAAAAH!! you ain't sh!t!!  
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there was a thread about how not going to pre-k = stupidity? 
i must have missed that.. lol not surprised though 
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Neka, if the stars align properly you should adopt. You'd make a great mom.
thank you, but you know the rules: people who should be parents often aren't.  

apparently, i was born a tia and i'm gonna die an auntie. hahaha!!
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I want to adopt in 10 years but if I get married and have more biological children, I don't know if I will go through with it.
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in my younger and wilder days, when i thought of adoption, i figured i'd be a single parent. not that men aren't into that, it just sometimes seems that men aren't too keen on taking in/care of children that aren't theirs and would push to have bios. 

with that thought in mind, i couldn't do that do a child. while, resentment of men at times aside, i am ok "despite" having a single mom as a parent, i'd want them to have both. kids are resilient. amazingly so, but they tend to internalize things like that.  
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Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

Cause we danced all night to the best song evurrr

Don't you like that band Coco?

i missed this.. 

lol i just googled the lyrics.. nah i dont care for one direction 
but the engaged one is cute 

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I used to have so many ill feelings towards my mother but not anymore. The longer you live, the more you learn.
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