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im about to take a few career assessment type quizzes.. 
that will help me decide 
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

even though id like to become a doctor.. im starting to feel its not the best career for me. 

he was just telling me that he really sees me somewhere in business.. some type of manager.. ppl always tell me that.. im hella bossy. i have always felt like that too.. but i just chose the doctor path because it seems like more secure/stable money and its more interesting to me.. but i have always wanted to dabble in business. I feel like i wouldnt bullsh*t as much either..  

i need to find something in business that really interests me. 

he also said that he can hella see me as a doctor though.. 
sigh.. idk what to do with my life. i hateeeeeeeee this.. i have always had a plan and a goal.. i cant not have a plan.. i cant not know what im going to do.. psychology and/or psychiatry has been the plan since like forever.. 
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sounds like youd make a good surgeon/cardiologist instead
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i would looove to be a surgeon! that would be in a tie between psychiatry.. but i dont think its realistic for me because of my poor eyesight 

i always wanna get the dead animals on the side of the road and cut them open to look all inside.. 
i got to cut into a cadaver before and it was the highlight of my month. looking at the insides is so cool.. 

but my studiousness make feel like all them years of schooling (to become a doctor) is not realistic for me.. Disapprove
idk what to do with my life. 
times like this is where being a trophy wife/STHM is sounding good.. 
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i would looove to be a surgeon! that would be in a tie between psychiatry.. but i dont think its realistic for me because of my poor eyesight 

i always wanna get the dead animals on the side of the road and cut them open to look all inside.. 
i got to cut into a cadaver before and it was the highlight of my month. looking at the insides is so cool.. 

but my studiousness make feel like all them years of schooling (to become a doctor) is not realistic for me.. Disapprove
idk what to do with my life. 
times like this is where being a trophy wife/STHM is sounding good.. 
no! there's nothing wrong with being a SAHM but like any other job, it's not something you should just settle for.

and trophy wife? come on cokes you know you're better than that!Embarrassed LOL

it's okay not to have things fully figured out, I know I don't but we're young and there's still plenty of time to decide what route to take so don't stress it.Smile
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i feel like Wise should just stop making those damn onion rings.  pretty much every other brand makes them better anyway.  Ermm just stop already cuz im sick of getting duped.
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

times like this is where being a trophy wife/STHM is sounding good.. 
more power to you, cause it couldn't be me.  while i know (wo)men genuinely enjoy being sahps, i would feel like my soul is slowly dying. my career genuinely is so much of my self identity and it would feel as though i were lying to myself otherwise. the sahps i see, their kids become their lives. like their kids are all they talk about and all their friends are sahps so they talk about their kids too.  

trophy wife? besides not having the looks to do so, i don't want to seem like a joke. if that makes sense. although, i'm probably putting way too much thought into it.  
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uggggghhhhhh that traffic i just endured made me wanna slap some faces...
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cherry, i dont feel like i have plenty of time to figure it out. i feel old and i am behind... you already have your degree right? i should too. 
plus i like to always have a plan.. i dont like to not know what im doing. 


Neka, idk how i really feel about it.. like ive always said that even if my husband is rich.. id still want my own career and to work.. But at the same time.. idk.. id want to be able to spend lots of time with my kids and also have my own life.. that doesnt seem very possible unless i just work for a few hours. 
i think i could be a SAHM and still have my own social life.. but i still would at least want a BA under my belt.. id need to have SOMEthing to fall back on.. just in case 
  
sheittt, i dont think theres anything wrong with being a trophy wife if youre smart. a smart person will use that mans money to get her own money.. i would definitely start up a little business or learn about investing/stocks or something..  
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wait.. does a trophy wife mean that i am solely using him for his money? and like i dont really like/love him? so like we wouldnt have kids..? 

whats the difference between wanting to marry someone wealthy then becoming a SAHM.. and a trophy wife? 
i know that youre supposed to be attractive as a trophy wife.. but aside from that. 


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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

sheittt, i dont think theres anything wrong with being a trophy wife if youre smart.a smart person will use that mans money to get her own money..
oh i fully agree, it's just that the two rarely go hand in hand and there seems a lack of respect on a level. if a woman is fortunate enough to make it to trophy status, has a plan to save/invest and doesn't do the typical live in the moment thing-- i have respect for her and ain't the least bit mad. 
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