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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i would still be annoyed if the dad did it.. but not as annoyed at the aunt doing it.. if the dad told you to do it thats different but it sounded like you just took it upon yourself to change her hair.. 

what if that was the style she was going for..? if someone just felt like my daughters hair looked a mess and took it upon themselves to change it (im not talking about putting it into a ponytail.. im talking about you actually changing something that took me time to do) id have a problem with that.. 

imagine it being your child and like.. their white aunt saw that you had put braids in her hair and felt like it looked a mess.. so she just took it upon herself to take them out. 

I think I see what you mean but that's not a fair comparison. I didn't significantly or negatively alter her hair. I groomed it while putting it in it's natural state. When I say it looked a mess, that is what I mean. I've only seen this child's hair done three other times. Once was for a wedding, once for her Christmas pic, and the other time I did it (on Thanksgiving). My brother told me usually she just wears her hair to school however she wakes up. Or they will straight up not comb it but force it into a ponytail. I usually don't mess with it because she is a child and her hair doesn't matter plus it's still curly so it's cute and so is she. But you don't send your child out of the house looking like the witch from The Sword in the Stone. That's just ghetto.



 When I combed her hair on Thanksgiving it was because we were going to a party and I wanted my niece to look nice and feel proud. If she is going to be out and about with me I have the right to see to it that her hair is presentable. The way I see it they just don't have the time or patience to deal with her hair so I did them a favor. If her mom isn't bothered by her running about the house looking abused and neglected by the head that's on her but when she is in my care I see something like the above pic I reserve the right to correct it or her parents can find another sitter.

(No I'm not saying I would refuse to see my niece if I couldn't comb her hair but I'm saying that you can't always get what you want. I am her aunt and when she is in my care I feed her, entertain her, discipline her so why shouldn't I be able to comb her hair?


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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i wouldnt make it a big deal/say anything though unless it happened again.. 

its not that serious but it would annoy me. 

If it has to happen again her mother will be receiving a call from me.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

I think I'm addicted to ebay shopping.
me too

ive learnt to curb my habit though
Ditto. Mine is just dormant until the holiday season or until I decide to open the app back up.
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Afro I've just reached the height of my addiction. I'm trying to calm down with it though
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ok. 
i feel like those examples are different.. wetting her hair changed something it took her mom time to do.. 

on the other days it just wasnt done at all.. those days were understandable. 

just cus youre watching my child doesnt mean you can do what you want to her. 

we agree to disagree though. 
i just wouldnt like relatives feeling entitled to my childs hair just cus they didnt like it when i took the time to do it 
from the sounds of it though she needs help with it and wont feel a way.. so whatevs. 


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yep

lemme tell you how good ive been, ive celebrated the whole month of january and february without buying nothing

ive placed a few bids then when i got outbid i was like meh fucck it



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neka i wanna bite you neck



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lol i remember one time a cousins was watching his sisters for a few days (he was grown)... their mom always had their hair in bushy big plaits that looked a mess.. and they werent little girls either they were like 11/12ish... 

the brothers girlfriend did their hair one time.. and when the mom saw she went crazy. she was screaming and literally crying. the girls got in trouble cus she said they should never let anyone touch their hair unless she said it was okay.. and she cussed the hell out of her son.. 
it was funny.. 
she was irate. 


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imma tell cherry you bein' fresh afro lol

i think mini me will like spicy stuff like me. she ate a couple of hot fries got mad because i wouldnt give her more.
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That's kinda different because it was a teen/young'n and a stranger Some people just like playing in people's hair when they have a lot of hair or a "nice grade" of hair even though they really have no idea what they're doing. But yeah the mom still overreacted.


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