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When it comes to marriage, I think black people have it so much easier

I was listening to these Asians talk.

The bloke is getting married and it was interesting

He was speaking to another Asian girl .. He is excited but damn what they have to go through

Thank god im black
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It was the courtship process

This guy wanted to propose in a nice setting like France after a weekend or something, but he'd have to first ask for permission to propose formally then ask for permission to take her out of the country

Furthermore, when they get married they have to live with his folks or have to get their own place, WITH permission

And then if they do live with other people in the house, they just can't go out to the movies for example, they have to ask the other people in the house if they would like to go out too.

Sex is a non starter, women are not not meant to be heard

I was like this is just too much sh*te ..

Lol

The girl he was chatting to was a right old coconut, she was like why not just do what you want., the poor dude was like yeah, but she is so not that type of person, and since her younger sister is getting married first she feels obliged to do things proper.

Lol

In my head I was thinking, mate you're fuccked lol well, and I know he wishes it was in the literal sense.,
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i made out by 6:15 and even the birds rejoiced LOL
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 17 2013 at 6:47am
Well this oga and that Oga need to have an oga to Oga chat

Note the capitals in the right place

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote HeyBeautiful18 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 17 2013 at 7:11am
Texted this bish 30 mins ago if i had to come in at 9

It can't be THAT busy.

I'm pretty sure it said 11 but since it was 9 last Monday I'm not sure.

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But imagine having to go through that,

That's just messed up. I mean I knew it was bad but that conversation was eye opening.

The girls parents have a dinner near the guys parents place so they are going to do two birds with one stone, the guy was like I guess half through dinner someone is gonna stand up and be like so the reason why we are all here.

Apparently when they had to swap family albums so the families could assess each other and see of they like the look or fit of the other family.

And apparently the guys mom is proper, used loosely, that she even wanted him to marry someone of the same surname

I mean us coloured folk would run from something like that though..

Right?

Right?



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Man....my Indian friend got on my nerves with that tradition bullsh*t.
He wanted to move out the house so he could have some freedom and feel like an adult.
But he was whining about how he didn't want to disappoint his parents by moving out. 
I cussed him out. 
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Man....my Indian friend got on my nerves with that tradition bullsh*t.
He wanted to move out the house so he could have some freedom and feel like an adult.
But he was whining about how he didn't want to disappoint his parents by moving out. 
I cussed him out. 
 
Aren't you a comforting human being? Sleepy
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That's too much to marry a chick, shiiiiiiit. Too much stress of doing shyt to marry a woman who might be wack as hell. I ain't got time for that and for those dead niccas.
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rawr.

ugh. i love him.

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