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Humans have a hard time accepting others as different so they usually put "Titles or Names" on others to ostracized them or make them see they have problems, but no one has a problem with Tribalism in the 21st century apparently when we are a global community. That's the true problem to society.

yooo for real...stop playing the victim. You posted a crazy ass picture (and you continue to do strange shyt like that) then when someone say's somethig, you wanna say someone trying to ostarcize you...There is something called social norms, and you fall waaay the fucck out of it. Now I don't mind anyones differences, but you make it a point to be an odd ball...and it just rubbed me the wrong way on this early Thursday morning...
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now that i'm all caught up:

good morning all!! Big smile

who the hell is mixer & why am i already tired? yep, that quickly. someone provide me guidance if you please... Confused
Mixer was a regular in the sex section. He does pop ups here and there...pretty harmless.
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Mixer is cool Neka. He's my boo sometimes.
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Getting some hair today!

I need somethin with blonde highlights for the summer.
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thank you jewels & good morning!! 

i was already like 




eta: thank you & good morning hb!! 

oh--btw, it's in the mail. keep me posted-- no pun.


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Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Humans have a hard time accepting others as different so they usually put "Titles or Names" on others to ostracized them or make them see they have problems, but no one has a problem with Tribalism in the 21st century apparently when we are a global community. That's the true problem to society.

yooo for real...stop playing the victim. You posted a crazy ass picture (and you continue to do strange shyt like that) then when someone say's somethig, you wanna say someone trying to ostarcize you...There is something called social norms, and you fall waaay the fucck out of it. Now I don't mind anyones differences, but you make it a point to be an odd ball...and it just rubbed me the wrong way on this early Thursday morning...
 
This was pointed towards society, not towards you. I'm not casting shade on anyone particulary but more so the culture. We have variety of different cultures and there are some that are very different but yet their society is doing well. Social norms change all the time and through different generations. So they are temporary ways of living and doing things. So, in a way doesn't that seem weird that people take these things to heart and attack others who want live a different lifestyle. Take for instance the LBGT community. These are grown adults having sex with the same sex and people take offense to it, it's in their own home. Yet, they aren't affected by it. I just think it's weird and manipulative of society.
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Goodmorning love

Ok ill keep an eye out for it. I love getting mail.
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My mom was about to pay her lottery number with pennies

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Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Humans have a hard time accepting others as different so they usually put "Titles or Names" on others to ostracized them or make them see they have problems, but no one has a problem with Tribalism in the 21st century apparently when we are a global community. That's the true problem to society.

yooo for real...stop playing the victim. You posted a crazy ass picture (and you continue to do strange shyt like that) then when someone say's somethig, you wanna say someone trying to ostarcize you...There is something called social norms, and you fall waaay the fucck out of it. Now I don't mind anyones differences, but you make it a point to be an odd ball...and it just rubbed me the wrong way on this early Thursday morning...
 
This was pointed towards society, not towards you. I'm not casting shade on anyone particulary but more so the culture. We have variety of different cultures and there are some that are very different but yet their society is doing well. Social norms change all the time and through different generations. So they are temporary ways of living and doing things. So, in a way doesn't that seem weird that people take these things to heart and attack others who want live a different lifestyle. Take for instance the LBGT community. These are grown adults having sex with the same sex and people take offense to it, it's in their own home. Yet, they aren't affected by it. I just think it's weird and manipulative of society.
But we live in this said society Peace. Culture has alot to do with what is considered acceptable, and what is not. You can not marry an underage child here, but some cultures that is the norm. You live in America, where you are judged and scrutinized for any differences you display. And don't get me wrong, I honestly embrace anything that is truly different. Because them being different comes naturally, it doesn't seem forced, or merely for the sake of being different, but they actual see and view things from a different place.
 
I don't mean to be cruel to you, but what you consider different, IMHO is simply you gravating towards what isn't typically considered "black"in order to stand out. What you go on about, is other culutral norms, that doesn't make you different at all...You are just considered different by the people you socialize with on a daily irl.
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Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Humans have a hard time accepting others as different so they usually put "Titles or Names" on others to ostracized them or make them see they have problems, but no one has a problem with Tribalism in the 21st century apparently when we are a global community. That's the true problem to society.

yooo for real...stop playing the victim. You posted a crazy ass picture (and you continue to do strange shyt like that) then when someone say's somethig, you wanna say someone trying to ostarcize you...There is something called social norms, and you fall waaay the fucck out of it. Now I don't mind anyones differences, but you make it a point to be an odd ball...and it just rubbed me the wrong way on this early Thursday morning...
 
This was pointed towards society, not towards you. I'm not casting shade on anyone particulary but more so the culture. We have variety of different cultures and there are some that are very different but yet their society is doing well. Social norms change all the time and through different generations. So they are temporary ways of living and doing things. So, in a way doesn't that seem weird that people take these things to heart and attack others who want live a different lifestyle. Take for instance the LBGT community. These are grown adults having sex with the same sex and people take offense to it, it's in their own home. Yet, they aren't affected by it. I just think it's weird and manipulative of society.
But we live in this said society Peace. Culture has alot to do with what is considered acceptable, and what is not. You can not marry an underage child here, but some cultures that is the norm. You live in America, where you are judged and scrutinized for any differences you display. And don't get me wrong, I honestly embrace anything that is truly different. Because them being different comes naturally, it doesn't seem forced, or merely for the sake of being different, but they actual see and view things from a different place.
 
I don't mean to be cruel to you, but what you consider different, IMHO is simply you gravating towards what isn't typically considered "black"in order to stand out. What you go on about, is other culutral norms, that doesn't make you different at all...You are just considered different by the people you socialize with on a daily irl.
 
I agree, there is nothing new under the sun. I'm not forcing myself to be different, but trying to be more who I am everyday.I see people who do not harm no one and peaceful get looked down but growing up around The Short North in Columbus, Ohio the artsy people live their lives and do as they please regardless of gender and race. Going into the military and meeting different types of people and other countries and see how people live. I think people who value freedom greater than stability are much lower than those who value stability far more than freedom.
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