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LMAO .. you aint sh*t for adding in that end part wonderland. I was agreeing with you and everything til the end made me bust out laughing. Poor guys
 
But seriously though, that can mess a man up forever. I was reading a snippet of this book, it was saying the prison culture is so different. Like they honestly don't look at the men who are doing the raping as gay, but they look at the ones who are being coerced/raped as the gay ones.. craziness.
 
And then they get out, and it's like nothing. Back to fckin bitches. Like.. is the need for sex really that serious on a 5 yr prison term??


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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

If a guy you were dating told you after you were in love with him that he had been raped in prison, would you look at him differently? Would you be able to get over it? Would you hold it against him in an argument?
 
(he does not have HIV, this has been proven to you, and you already knew about the prison term... lets say he was falsey accused and later released due to this)
i wouldn't look at him differently, there would be nothing for me to"get over" and no i'm not going to use his sexual assualt as argument fodder.
 
frankly, i'd be disgusted that people would consider the latter.
 
that's, of course, their right though.
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I think I'll just enjoy my cat and my rocking chair lol

As for the 2nd scenario...whaaat girl? how did prison rape come up in convo? How did he drop that nugget of truth?
 
LOL
 
So, are you saying you would prefer for your husband to not tell you if he had ever been raped in prison? Yeah I think this is one of those things we would prefer to not know about. But let's say it's been eating him up .. and yall are in bed..and he drops the bomb on you
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Thumbs Up I agree neka!
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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

LMAO .. you aint sh*t for adding in that end part wonderland. I was agreeing with you and everything til the end made me bust out laughing. Poor guys
 
But seriously though, that can mess a man up forever. I was reading a snippet of this book, it was saying the prison culture is so different. Like they honestly don't look at the men who are doing the raping as gay, but they look at the ones who are being coerced/raped as the gay ones.. craziness.
 
And then they get out, and it's like nothing. Back to fckin bitches. Like.. is the need for sex really that serious on a 5 yr prison term??
Some men will fark busted, worn out, ragged sick looking prostitutes walking down the road when they are not incarcerated. I wouldn't put it past them to fark clean prison hard body ray ray their cell mate.LOL

ETA: I wouldn't hold prison rape against him but I would be wary if he didn't seek some type of counseling or talk to someone about it.

The cat seems so much simpler.


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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

LMAO .. you aint sh*t for adding in that end part wonderland. I was agreeing with you and everything til the end made me bust out laughing. Poor guys
 
But seriously though, that can mess a man up forever. I was reading a snippet of this book, it was saying the prison culture is so different. Like they honestly don't look at the men who are doing the raping as gay, but they look at the ones who are being coerced/raped as the gay ones.. craziness.
 
And then they get out, and it's like nothing. Back to fckin bitches. Like.. is the need for sex really that serious on a 5 yr prison term??
Some men will fark busted, worn out, ragged sick looking prostitutes walking down the road when they are not incarcerated. I wouldn't put it past them to fark clean prison hard body ray ray their cell mate.LOL

ETA: I wouldn't hold prison rape against him but I would be wary if he didn't seek some type of counseling or talk to someone about it.

The cat seems so much simpler.


LMAO

all i'd need are magazines and occasional computer access for my fantasies and masturbation.  it would not be that serious.  those prison rapist just want to take control of someone else because they have no more power and control(still gay/bi/whatever).

the guys engaging in consensual sex must've been a 2-3 on the Kinsey Scale all along. 


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Just the whole idea of how men ,especially black men, view EVERYTHINNNGGGGG as gay (ex. going to the movies with another guy friend) when theyre NOT in jail and for it to so quickly turn into what it is in prison is fascinating to me.
 
Give me a 5 year term, and Ima make SURE im unattractive to all those hoes. Guess who won't be bathing on her period if I start getting too many sexual looks? Approve
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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

If a guy you were dating told you after you were in love with him that he had been raped in prison, would you look at him differently? Would you be able to get over it? Would you hold it against him in an argument?
 
(he does not have HIV, this has been proven to you, and you already knew about the prison term... lets say he was falsey accused and later released due to this)

you should make this a thread. 

i would keep him though.
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I think I'll just enjoy my cat and my rocking chair lol
i'll swap the cat for a dog.
 
thank you in advance.
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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

Just the whole idea of how men ,especially black men, view EVERYTHINNNGGGGG as gay (ex. going to the movies with another guy friend) when theyre NOT in jail and for it to so quickly turn into what it is in prison is fascinating to me.
 
Give me a 5 year term, and Ima make SURE im unattractive to all those hoes. Guess who won't be bathing on her period if I start getting too many sexual looks? Approve
IA. I imagine it would take a toll on their mental health.

Don't worry LB. Your pheromones will have the ladies lining up to court you after you finally bathe.LOLDead

Wonderland, good point.
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