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If a guy you were dating told you after you were in love with him that he had been raped in prison, would you look at him differently? Would you be able to get over it? Would you hold it against him in an argument?
 
(he does not have HIV, this has been proven to you, and you already knew about the prison term... lets say he was falsey accused and later released due to this)


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and then a full ass backstory was developed for that premise....
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Yeah Ive heard varying stories about it too.. I think it also depends what kind of facility it's in... but I tend to not believe the ones who say it doesnt happen
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

and then a full ass backstory was developed for that premise....

LMAO she threw in every disclaimer.

if i was in love with him i would be supportive and understanding.  prison culture really frightens me so i can only imagine how it is to be a man thrown into that beast.  i wouldn't look at him differently...if he told me he had to be someones bitch then idk how i would feel...i would just picture him having to drop to his knees every time his boo came home from the yard.
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I think I'll just enjoy my cat and my rocking chair lol

As for the 2nd scenario...whaaat girl? how did prison rape come up in convo? How did he drop that nugget of truth?
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LMAO .. you aint sh*t for adding in that end part wonderland. I was agreeing with you and everything til the end made me bust out laughing. Poor guys
 
But seriously though, that can mess a man up forever. I was reading a snippet of this book, it was saying the prison culture is so different. Like they honestly don't look at the men who are doing the raping as gay, but they look at the ones who are being coerced/raped as the gay ones.. craziness.
 
And then they get out, and it's like nothing. Back to fckin bitches. Like.. is the need for sex really that serious on a 5 yr prison term??


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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

If a guy you were dating told you after you were in love with him that he had been raped in prison, would you look at him differently? Would you be able to get over it? Would you hold it against him in an argument?
 
(he does not have HIV, this has been proven to you, and you already knew about the prison term... lets say he was falsey accused and later released due to this)
i wouldn't look at him differently, there would be nothing for me to"get over" and no i'm not going to use his sexual assualt as argument fodder.
 
frankly, i'd be disgusted that people would consider the latter.
 
that's, of course, their right though.
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I think I'll just enjoy my cat and my rocking chair lol

As for the 2nd scenario...whaaat girl? how did prison rape come up in convo? How did he drop that nugget of truth?
 
LOL
 
So, are you saying you would prefer for your husband to not tell you if he had ever been raped in prison? Yeah I think this is one of those things we would prefer to not know about. But let's say it's been eating him up .. and yall are in bed..and he drops the bomb on you
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Thumbs Up I agree neka!
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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

LMAO .. you aint sh*t for adding in that end part wonderland. I was agreeing with you and everything til the end made me bust out laughing. Poor guys
 
But seriously though, that can mess a man up forever. I was reading a snippet of this book, it was saying the prison culture is so different. Like they honestly don't look at the men who are doing the raping as gay, but they look at the ones who are being coerced/raped as the gay ones.. craziness.
 
And then they get out, and it's like nothing. Back to fckin bitches. Like.. is the need for sex really that serious on a 5 yr prison term??
Some men will fark busted, worn out, ragged sick looking prostitutes walking down the road when they are not incarcerated. I wouldn't put it past them to fark clean prison hard body ray ray their cell mate.LOL

ETA: I wouldn't hold prison rape against him but I would be wary if he didn't seek some type of counseling or talk to someone about it.

The cat seems so much simpler.


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