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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Josephuss Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 8:57pm
Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

ok new self rule. anytime someone  looks at  me and smiles or has  any obvious inviting expression,  just say hi. also don't avoid looking at people not to say  hi.

I'm smiling at you baby

hi nala

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote nala52808 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 9:07pm
Joe, you cant just say "hi nala"Ermm  You have to say it with your chest. So people know you aint scurred.

Lets try this again
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Josephuss Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 9:09pm
HIIIIIIII NALAAAAAAAA!!!!!!
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote nala52808 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 23 2014 at 9:14pm
now that's how I like it, nicca!!!LOL Now what da hell is going on in yer life today? Nala wants to know cuz she's nosy and boredCry
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This is actually pretty good thread.  I have pretty much always been an introvert but since half of my immediate family are also introverts and/or socially inept so it never seemed that bad to me.  Even as a small child, I would rather read a book or color rather than go outside and play with kids.  I didn't feel rejected by people or see others as "the enemy" until I was taught to do so.  I could be a sociable child and interact with others just fine when I wasn't doing my own thing.

I'm pretty much the same way now.  I have had to learn to be social and find it easy to talk to people to function in life.  Unless you want to be a penniless, hermit I just can't see how you can just not navigate social mores and participate.  However, I'm still not good around large groups of people like at a party or gatherings when I don't know other people.  I tend to pick out a few people to interact with.  So yeah, that makes group functions kind of stressful.  I don't mind crowds in general, I have family members who do.  Wasn't aware that was actually a "thing" with introverts.

As far as introversion being a disadvantage, I think it can be but it doesn't have to be.  We do tend to be more introspective but again, I don't think that has to be a bad thing.  Being aware of it and managing resulting negativity is a good idea i suppose.  The thing I like about being an introvert is actually enjoying solitary tasks and therefore developing a skill of some kind.  Of course you run into the issue of other people thinking you're "doing nothing" and they want to suck out the time you need to recharge.  I really think that's where communication and compromise comes in.  For example, if you have an SO who wants to hang out, just let them know you wanted to get some things done but you can hang out later.



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Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

now that's how I like it, nicca!!!LOL Now what da hell is going on in yer life today? Nala wants to know cuz she's nosy and boredCry
sunday was hall day  of course... today is just a dull day
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from 1-6 grade I was the only kid who hated recces. I didnt know how to get involved with the other kids so I wandered around aimlessly. I could walk then mind you. a couple months ago I was randomly thinking about a shed I sat behind on the playground when I really felt out of place. a couple days later I was on the bus when it drove past that school, and if the shed had eyes it would  of been starting at me. I havent been past there since I went to that school but I took it as a good  coincidence just to get to a better place...


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im so bored. who wants to talk to me?
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I'm a proud introvert. When I was younger I didn't quite understand why I felt mentally drained after dealing with large groups. But as I've gotten older I gained a better understanding of myself and introversion. I remember in Middle school, and High School I use to skip going to lunch because I didn’t like dealing with the large crowds in the cafeteria. Instead I would just chill at the library. I'm extremely observant & highly intuitive, so being an introvert just adds to it. Being an introvert can be challenging at times because people usually expect for black women to be loud, and openly express everything that comes to their minds. I feel like being an introvert gives me an advantage in life. When most people are busy running their mouths, I'm sitting back observing and analyzing what may not be obvious to the naked eye.
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