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i want you to realize that your chair dont mean shiiit. 

youre still smart, youre still cool, you have a lot to offer besides your legs… and fck anyone who says or feels different. 

you dont have to have the best social skills.. youre amazing enough to be choosy with who you choose to socialize/be talkative with.. 

tell yourself you are great everyday.. something about you..
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i'm not angry at all. do i sound angry?LOL
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

i think you give people too much credit too. i was once like that until i realized that a large chuck of the human population aint sh*t. extrovert or not. so why should i quell my fire? bullsh*t. they can kiss my ass. 
dont let your fustrations with people  anger you noneyons. anger will only have a negative effect on you. embrace love always Big smile


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i guess if there's any anger here, its anger that i spent most of my life with blinders on, quelling myself as to not make other people uncomfortable. i'm passionate about imparting that on to anyone who struggles with the same issues i struggled with growing up. 

i am absolutely not angry in general lol. frustrated, maybe. because you remind me of my dad and brother (i told you about them).
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i want you to realize that your chair dont mean shiiit. 

youre still smart, youre still cool, you have a lot to offer besides your legs… and fck anyone who says or feels different. 

you dont have to have the best social skills.. youre amazing enough to be choosy with who you choose to socialize/be talkative with.. 

tell yourself you are great everyday.. something about you..
my current nature came about when I was younger. I just sunk further into the abyss as I lost my silent battle with depression. I just gotta get out this zone because no one ever questioned my mental state so I gotta do what is best while depending on God. but thanks for the inspiration
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i know.. ive grasped that while talking to you a few diff times.. 

but im telling you that you need to literally tell yourself very good things about yourself every single day. 
im not religious… but depend on god while doing your part.. you have to help yourself too.. be very positive and try to uplift yourself.. 
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Besides speaking i can't talk to people i don't feel a connection with it just seems like im being fake.
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Originally posted by rell85 rell85 wrote:

Besides speaking i can't talk to people i don't feel a connection with it just seems like im being fake.
I feel sort of the same way even though I dont really have convos. the way people talk in general seem kinda disingenuous to me all together though.
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Originally posted by Josephuss Josephuss wrote:

Originally posted by rell85 rell85 wrote:

Besides speaking i can't talk to people i don't feel a connection with it just seems like im being fake.
I feel sort of the same way even though I dont really have convos. the way people talk in general seem kinda disingenuous to me all together though.
Small talk kills me inside. When I meet new people I try never to do small talk. I usually start talking about myself and whatever happened to me and then they can chime in if they want, but if not then I'm already coming up with an escape plan to get out of that convo, because I aint got no time for awkward situations
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:


the "problem" with some introverts is that we have a tendency to over think and over analyze everything including ourselves and our thoughts. we second guess ourselves and even second guess our best qualities that only we know exist in our heads lol. 

so taking on an alter ego personality to me doesn't mean exhibiting traits that are completely opposite of who you are. instead, i think we should hone all those awesome qualities that sometimes only we know about, wrap them up in a pretty little bow (give him/her a nameLOL) and put them on display when we find ourselves in situations that call for us to get outside our heads. 

i don't know if that makes sense  


I do that a lot, I analyze too much, it is really bad, I waste time on that.

Have you tried an alter-ego? And if so, who did you emulate?
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