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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

i hate crowds.
doesnt matter if im in a car or not
i was on the train a couple days ago and i was freaking out.
the heck was i doing out breathing fresh air and enjoying sun light anyways...

bad move ice.


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 21 2014 at 2:48pm
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

i think all introverts should create an alter ego until they become comfortable enough that it merges with their real personality. i think i'm mostly there (i can shoot the breeze with anybody if need be) but introversion will always be my default personality 
ive got about 20. mostly characters from my book.but my most fav one you cant talk to her unless youre face to face.ShockedShockedShockedEvil Smile

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote goodm3 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 21 2014 at 2:53pm
this guy that sits next to me at work is complete extrovert with the need to have everyone's attention. I haven't spoken to him in 4 days and he is sooooooo angry with me and it completely tickles me. lol.... 
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this guy im talking to is an introvert. he is very quiet and relaxed. he'll talk to you if you want to talk to him but it has to be about something interesting. if you saw his pics you would think that he was the exact opposite and is a man ho but he's not. He has the personality that I am looking for in a bf/future husband because though he is quiet he takes control of situatons and seems to be dependable and funnyHeart
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There is nothing wrong with being an introvert. Being an introvert doesn’t me shy or antisocial.
Introverted just means you gain energy internally instead of through the outside environment.
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I guess I'm a bit strange, I am very extroverted but get burnt out easily turning me into an introvert.
Being alone energizes me instead of being around others, so i always need to go away to recharge, but i love being around others!
If we party Saturday night, pls don't bring the party to someone's house later and expect me to come because my energy is tapping out. I'm the one having a good time but secretly looking forward to when it ends and I get to plop down on my bed.
No I don't want to go out next weekend just because we're out this weekend.
Isn't one weekend of fun enough? Lol

SO: want to come with me to the barbershop?
Me: Yes babe!
we get there
SO: Aren't you coming in?
Me: Nah, I'll be right out here when you get back :)
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I invite my friends over then get a stomach ache as the time approaches for them to arrive.
Not all the time, but a lot of the time. Esp if it is a friend I don't chat with often.

*calls all my friends up to order their carnival costumes where we will be palancing and juking and duttywhining and stared at in a crowd all day*






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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


is/was there an introvert/extrovert personality test?

i think im both...


Ambiversion

Although many people view being introverted or extraverted as a question with only two possible answers, most contemporary trait theories measure levels of extraversion-introversion as part of a single, continuous dimension of personality, with some scores near one end, and others near the half-way mark,[10] see the Big Five personality traits. Ambiversion is falling more or less directly in the middle.[4][11] An ambivert is moderately comfortable with groups and social interaction, but also relishes time alone, away from a crowd.


maybe  youre an ambivert... and extraversion and  introversion can also be seen as modes unless you lean strongly to one side


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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

i think all introverts should create an alter ego until they become comfortable enough that it merges with their real personality. i think i'm mostly there (i can shoot the breeze with anybody if need be) but introversion will always be my default personality 
sounds like something that would lead to  split personalities, schizophrenia or whatever
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i can see why'd you say that, joe. 

let me explain. 

the "problem" with some introverts is that we have a tendency to over think and over analyze everything including ourselves and our thoughts. we second guess ourselves and even second guess our best qualities that only we know exist in our heads lol. 

so taking on an alter ego personality to me doesn't mean exhibiting traits that are completely opposite of who you are. instead, i think we should hone all those awesome qualities that sometimes only we know about, wrap them up in a pretty little bow (give him/her a nameLOL) and put them on display when we find ourselves in situations that call for us to get outside our heads. 

i don't know if that makes sense  


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