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Originally posted by femmemuscleisback femmemuscleisback wrote:

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<div>Nars?  many of them don't look that young.. some of them used to post their pics in the S.E.X section before it went to pot?</div>
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<div>they looked old...well, at least certain parts of their anatomy looked pretty damn old...<img src=http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/smileys/smiley5.gif height=17 width=17 border=0 alt=Confused title=Confused /></div>
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<div> </div>[/QUOTE NARSAddictWell you have to take into account the ages of those who were impressed by the cliff-jumper.
 
Nars?  many of them don't look that young.. some of them used to post their pics in the S.E.X section before it went to pot?
 
they looked old...well, at least certain parts of their anatomy looked pretty damn old...Confused
 
 
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Oh...well never mind then.LOL


Oh...well never mind then.LOL
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I have been at this job for over two month and still am falling behind at times.  I am feeling a bit out of my league.
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Please skip if you are proned to being bothered by others rants, I am in my complaining/venting modes.


I currently like my job but there is this one person whose presences can suck the fcuking air out of the room.  I get that folks has issues and sh*t but leave that sh*t at home.  And my word can she belabor a fcuking issue to death.  I had to step away from her several times because I was on the verge of hemming her up and no fcuks would have been given that day.
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Originally posted by NARSAddict NARSAddict wrote:

Please skip if you are proned to being bothered by others rants, I am in my complaining/venting modes.


I currently like my job but there is this one person whose presences can suck the fcuking air out of the room.  I get that folks has issues and sh*t but leave that sh*t at home.  And my word can she belabor a fcuking issue to death.  I had to step away from her several times because I was on the verge of hemming her up and no fcuks would have been given that day.


LOLLOL

i'm not bothered by rants, i actually like when people vent their frustrations.. but when someone just targets a person and can keep a thread going for 50 pages? yeah.. i get bothered.  and you'e not that type..Embarrassed

It sounds like you are working with the same chick as myself.  These types are always a problem, and it makes me wonder what their home life is like.  She can walk into a room and it seems all of the paper on the bulletin board shrivels up at the sight of her.  Everyone avoids her like HIV..

and yes, this female creates a vacuum where ever she goes.  I was trying to pin down her personality, and at first wondered if it was "cultural"  She is from India, has blonde hair (auburn colored actually), wears a certain scent, bad teeth, and when she smiles, it's so fake, she reminds me of a reanimated corpse.Ouch

You can't say a WORD without her disagreeing with you.  Even when she agrees with you? she'll start out by saying "No,"  blah blah "no, blah blah".. She'll make a statement and right after that, when you call her on it a minute later?  she'll say "I never said that!"  Confused

and yes, last week, she had a blow up in 3 other depts., then came into our work area, and started in on me.. Belaboring, rehashing, working herself up into a rabid lather, to the point i had to say "STFU"..Angry   When i later apologized for saying it?  She tells me: "oh femme, you don't have to worry about me writing you up.. that's the only reason why you're apologizing." (then the "corpse smile"..)  Confused

and of course, i was "blamed" and told by her that because i had asked to leave me alone, that i had created a bad work environment for herConfused  Everyone is to blame for any problem in the dept. except her - and she's the one that makes them.

i, too, have to walk away from this type.   She will make a point and grind it to a pulp for 30 mins. or more if you sit there listening to her...

This b*8tch can literally start an argument in an empty house.   I kid you not..

so no, Nars.. your rant is valid, and it's sad to see there more people like this that exist.  Why they are here, i'm still trying to figure it out..

and yes, thanks for letting me rant as well.









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The sad part about all this?  Our manager will not interact with her, nor our directors. 

thus, when "Little Miss Sunshine" had her "4 dept." blow up, and i called for help from our wonderful manager?  She picked her cell, saw the number, and hung up.. when i called back again,  she had it sent to voicemail.. 

Apparently, the manager was in one of the depts. when the chick from India blew up... instead of her dealing with her?  She ran... our "fearless leader".. ran from her.

this is just how caustic this female is.. when administration literally runs when she's coming down the hall.




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now what's really annoying?  When our manager needs someone to help in other depts. for emergencies, or cover the call?  Yeah.. she calls me immediately, and i always pick up, come in on my days off and help her.

Whelp! 

guess what?  after last friday?  home girl will get what she gives..


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Well she is at it again.  The woman I work for clearly does not like me and I am at a loss on what I did to piss her off.  Like when I approach her to ask a question because my coworkers are off doing rounds and such, she has such a stank ass attitude like she can't be bothered.  But when I make a mistake, she berates me.  Like one time a staff came down to our department to request something.  Like a dummy I immediately asked her and she was just snapping off at me.  So me being a nervous person in nature, I started fumbling.  I grabbed the wrong product and I wanted to check with her to make sure that I am following the right steps.  Instead I turn to my coworker and she tried to help me the best way she could but without that order sheet, it was hopeless.  In turn, the staff from the other department got what she needed and this kunt starts going in on me.  Man I need to remind myself not to carry a knife or gun to work and keep all sharp objects away from my proximity because I want to try a last ditch effort to confronting her in a calm and professional matter.  If it doesn't go the way I hope, well I am going to start documenting her abusive manner.
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Originally posted by NARSAddict NARSAddict wrote:

Well she is at it again.  The woman I work for clearly does not like me and I am at a loss on what I did to piss her off.  Like when I approach her to ask a question because my coworkers are off doing rounds and such, she has such a stank ass attitude like she can't be bothered.  But when I make a mistake, she berates me.  Like one time a staff came down to our department to request something.  Like a dummy I immediately asked her and she was just snapping off at me.  So me being a nervous person in nature, I started fumbling.  I grabbed the wrong product and I wanted to check with her to make sure that I am following the right steps.  Instead I turn to my coworker and she tried to help me the best way she could but without that order sheet, it was hopeless.  In turn, the staff from the other department got what she needed and this kunt starts going in on me.  Man I need to remind myself not to carry a knife or gun to work and keep all sharp objects away from my proximity because I want to try a last ditch effort to confronting her in a calm and professional matter.  If it doesn't go the way I hope, well I am going to start documenting her abusive manner.


Start documenting it now, so you can use it for later. Write down the specific incidences with the date, recounting the situations where the issues have come up, almost like a journal.

 If possible get someone to vouch for you and write short statements addressing their perspective on that incident and what happened, with their signature and phone number.

When you pile up many specific examples, being told in a narrative way, and have many specific recounts, and people to vouch, when the time comes to report this woman, the people you take it to will take your gathered complaint seriously. But don't wait, start putting together these recounts now, while it is fresh in your mind.

 just be quiet about it so you can gather all the evidence so it shows this is a consistent and frequent occurrence, and that it significantly disturbs your work performance and the level of comfort you feel in the work environment.


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Originally posted by NARSAddict NARSAddict wrote:

Well she is at it again.  The woman I work for clearly does not like me and I am at a loss on what I did to piss her off.  Like when I approach her to ask a question because my coworkers are off doing rounds and such, she has such a stank ass attitude like she can't be bothered.  But when I make a mistake, she berates me.  Like one time a staff came down to our department to request something.  Like a dummy I immediately asked her and she was just snapping off at me.  So me being a nervous person in nature, I started fumbling.  I grabbed the wrong product and I wanted to check with her to make sure that I am following the right steps.  Instead I turn to my coworker and she tried to help me the best way she could but without that order sheet, it was hopeless.  In turn, the staff from the other department got what she needed and this kunt starts going in on me.  Man I need to remind myself not to carry a knife or gun to work and keep all sharp objects away from my proximity because I want to try a last ditch effort to confronting her in a calm and professional matter.  If it doesn't go the way I hope, well I am going to start documenting her abusive manner.


hmmmm.. nars, did you "replace" someone else who probably got fed up with her bullsh**t?

In hospitals, i'm learning that the ones that stay 10+ years on the job are usually the most craftiest..  thus, they always find a way to look great to administration, though their dept. is basically a 'revolving door" of past employees who had decided they've had enough.

How long has this female been there, and how many employees have had your position before you showed up?






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Whelp!

there is definitely something in the air.. 

1)  I had to get a mexican female off my jock - i'm not kidding.  She started emulating me, saying that we were "so much alike", and kept coming over to my department to "Hang out" or visit - even though i told her i was busy.

2) there were times i would be in the bathroom, and would be coming back - and there she was leaving the dept. looking for me.  I finally had to tell her to leave me the f&*&ck alone.

3) Then i finally lost it at the gym where the owner's brother and his girlfriend were hanging out, looking in my direction and laughing. (they were doing this for several months) when i finally became fed up.  Told him about his unprofessionalism, and having his family and friends hanging out at the front desk like the mexican version of the gawd damn Brady Bunch. 

4) Then the co-worker from India loses her mind - which happens about 2 to 3x a week. I have kept a safe working distance with her, which is great.

5) I guess i wasn't the only one.. We were in another town and riding down the street.  A car pulled up at the stop light.  A young AA male male emerged from the car, slammed the door, and walked several paces to the nearby parking lot.. When he was at a safe distance he looked back the car and yelled: "I'm sick of your sh*t, you f&*&cking b*ch! I oughta' throw a f*ckin' rock at you!! then walked off..

Basically?  that guy pretty much summed up my whole month in one heart-felt sentence..LOLLOL






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