| NARSAddict wrote:|
Please skip if you are proned to being bothered by others rants, I am in my complaining/venting modes.
I currently like my job but there is this one person whose presences can suck the fcuking air out of the room. I get that folks has issues and sh*t but leave that sh*t at home. And my word can she belabor a fcuking issue to death. I had to step away from her several times because I was on the verge of hemming her up and no fcuks would have been given that day.
i'm not bothered by rants, i actually like when people vent their frustrations.. but when someone just targets a person and can keep a thread going for 50 pages? yeah.. i get bothered. and you'e not that type..
It sounds like you are working with the same chick as myself. These types are always a problem, and it makes me wonder what their home life is like. She can walk into a room and it seems all of the paper on the bulletin board shrivels up at the sight of her. Everyone avoids her like HIV..
and yes, this female creates a vacuum where ever she goes. I was trying to pin down her personality, and at first wondered if it was "cultural" She is from India, has blonde hair (auburn colored actually), wears a certain scent, bad teeth, and when she smiles, it's so fake, she reminds me of a reanimated corpse.
You can't say a WORD
without her disagreeing with you. Even when she agrees with you? she'll start out by saying "No," blah blah "no, blah blah".. She'll make a statement and right after that, when you call her on it a minute later? she'll say "I never said that!"
and yes, last week, she had a blow up in 3 other depts., then came into our work area, and started in on me.. Belaboring, rehashing, working herself up into a rabid lather, to the point i had to say "STFU
When i later apologized
for saying it? She tells me: "oh femme, you don't have to worry about me writing you up.. that's the only reason why you're apologizing."
(then the "corpse smile"..)
and of course, i was "blamed" and told by her that because i had asked to leave me alone, that i had created a bad work environment for her
Everyone is to blame for any problem in the dept. except her - and she's the one that makes them.
i, too, have to walk away from this type. She will make a point and grind
it to a pulp for 30 mins. or more if you sit there listening to her...
This b*8tch can literally start an argument in an empty house. I kid you not..
so no, Nars.. your rant is valid, and it's sad to see there more people like this that exist. Why they are here, i'm still trying to figure it out..
and yes, thanks for letting me rant as well.
Edited by femmemuscleisback - Apr 14 2014 at 9:56am