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darkbarbie
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 11:45pm |
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wonder how long my hair is under this sew in
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Yumyum28
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Posted: Dec 28 2012 at 1:06am |
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Femme..I dont/cant imagine you being "ugly", I dislike referring to anyone as such. Honestly, I picture you as a tall dark brown skin middle age average build chick with kinky twists and scrubs, dont ask me why Can I see how you look?
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I am completely clueless to the point system on here, i dont get it! What do they stand for? Is it a ranking thing? Do you get points if people like your comment? Or is it when you comment that points are rewarded? Whats a free post?
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femmemuscleisback
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Posted: Dec 29 2012 at 2:52pm |
thanks Yumyum, yes i am middle aged, but far from average when it comes to the build. i'm built like Serena Williams with bigger arms, wide back small waist, and a smaller, tighter, butt. As for looks, i like to make fun of myself.. i am complimented on my black indian features every damn day i'm at work. plus, at the gym, i get hit on by older white rich men, or white college boys or younger men of all cultures except black guys - they always want me to "come to them" - go figure...  i'm a tomboy. but from what i gather from folks at work and the gym.. i guess i'm not as average looking as i'd like to think. Anyway, i don't ever want to walk around thinking i am the "sh&*t".. when i was younger, i did that quite a bit..when i got into the modeling game, i learned very quickly - there are folks out there that have "beauty" on lock-down. we're talking "uber-beautiful"..  As for the hair? i'm wigging it with shoulder length kinky curly wigs, while my 4c hair grows out. Beneath the wig, my hair is collar bone length when stretched. So, no soft body and big belly here! i work out and diet too hard to accept that kind of fate.
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Posted: Dec 29 2012 at 3:00pm |
Yumyum28 wrote:
I am completely clueless to the point system on here, i dont get it! What do they stand for? Is it a ranking thing? Do you get points if people like your comment? Or is it when you comment that points are rewarded? Whats a free post? |
oh yes, it's a "ranking" thing. i forgot where you get the chart, but there's a system. Ranking really means nothing on BHM. Some vendors, and beauticians will join and post (or do what is known as "free post) a lot to make lurkers think they've been on BHM for a long time, due to their "rank". a free post is when a member just posts anything to get points for ranking. when i became a VIP member, i went to the bank - looked at my checking account, and saw to my dismay, the VIP on BHM doesn't mean ZIP in the real world.. i was still broke, my credit card limit was still the same, and my vehicle did not change to an Escalade.
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Posted: Dec 29 2012 at 5:29pm |
femmemuscleisback wrote:
Yumyum28 wrote:
I am completely clueless to the point system on here, i dont get it! What do they stand for? Is it a ranking thing? Do you get points if people like your comment? Or is it when you comment that points are rewarded? Whats a free post? |
oh yes, it's a "ranking" thing. i forgot where you get the chart, but there's a system. Ranking really means nothing on BHM. Some vendors, and beauticians will join and post (or do what is known as "free post) a lot to make lurkers think they've been on BHM for a long time, due to their "rank".
a free post is when a member just posts anything to get points for ranking.
when i became a VIP member, i went to the bank - looked at my checking account, and saw to my dismay, the VIP on BHM doesn't mean ZIP in the real world.. i was still broke, my credit card limit was still the same, and my vehicle did not change to an Escalade.
LOL!! Femme, you truly slay me!! But, so true! I recently made VIP and chuckled bc the ranking means nada. If your looking for folk with good info., vibes, etc its not in the amount of stars a person has - its in the info. Or spirit of their posts. So, RIF- READING IS FUNDAMENTAL. PLEASE DON'T NEGATE someone's info. Bc they ain't a enior, VIP, Elite, short haired, etc bc ya miss alot of jewels- be it info or a person.
Shoot, I done read some really piss poor info given from some of the 'highest of the high' on BHM.
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Posted: Dec 29 2012 at 7:31pm |
yep, i agree..
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Posted: Dec 29 2012 at 7:36pm |
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this is interesting.
three companies are asking me to rate my transaction with them, and i haven't received my orders yet. just my luck to order during the xmas rush.
i tracked the package - and do know that my mac cosmetics has been riding around with the UPS truck driver since 12/20, and here it is the 29th. I placed my order 12/14/2012. We're out here in the boonies. Thus, this the last place the guy wants to go.
thank gawd it was only my favorite lipstick. If i were one of those types in dire need of a serious make up job every day, i'd be in the sh*&&*t by now.
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Posted: Dec 30 2012 at 3:18pm |
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oh man,
i HATE it after the holidays. All of those doctors who were out on vacation? will be coming back, and ordering exams with a vengeance.
i was surprised that during xmas day, there were hardly any ER patients. but the day after? The ER went NUTS! folks who don't have days off during after Xmas - just go to the ER with imaginary aches and pains so they can have time off with a doctors' excuse until after New Year.
I found this out by just asking the patients why they are "really here?" hell, they're so bold? they'll tell you!
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