it really is accepted in our community though..
most white girls will be shamed early on for being fat.
but i was always told that im too skinny, need to eat, etc..
im still being told that, but a little less… but you and your mothers are obese…… but i guess thats okay.
i remember my little cousin when she was like 8 being like, 'youre so skinny!' i was like, 'theres nothing wrong with being skinny' she was like, 'yes there is!' (mind you.. she was skinny back then too)
i was thinkin like poor girl… shes been hearing them talk too much and they already got her conditioned. i was the same way.. after hearing somethin so much you start to believe it. then i went and fcked up my lovely shape.
now shes 13 and huge btw.