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Do you have any books you would be able to recommend in finding you... or something to that nature???
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I didn't read all of that, but the parts I read I completely agree with.

Eye contact is .......powerful. Self confidence is BEAUTIFUL. I love a woman who just oozes confidence.
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Right on totallycool!!  This post is awesome!ClapClapClap
 
If I've learned nothing else: WE ARE OUR OWN WORST ENEMIES!!!Ouch
 
Half the crap we as women bych, worry, whine about....guys  NEVER notice & DONT care!!!LOL
 
It took Alex to make me understand....I was in the grocery store @ like 7am, tryin to get somethin. I looked a fooly wang hot triple azz mess Hair all ova my head, no make up, ratty sweat pants, ashy feet....just horrid!LOL
 
I'm headed towards the register & here comes this fine azz man, lookin @ me like a pork chop fresh out the grease smothered in gravy. To my shock & almost horror, he asks my name & intros himself. We exchange info.
 
I dated Alex for a couple months. I asked him what in the world made him talk to me bc I looked like a fool that day. He said "Real men can see past ugly hair/clothes. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman no matter what" Embarrassed
 
He went on to explain while of course men like a woman that looks nice & put together NOTHING tops a woman that is confident, yet humble, that can look him straight in the eye & walks with her head up.
 
I took that shyt and ran with itWink And the coldest part of it all is Alex was the 1st white man I ever dated. The eye contact has never failed me a day sinceBig%20smile
 
Keep doin ya thing totallycool!!ClapClapClap
 
 
 
 


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CynaminBrownGrl  so so very on point!  I'm naturally outgoing & a people person, but I just like to do things by myself. I love to take myself out for drinks, dinner or even a concert.
 
You are so right...when you're happy doin you, the man that is for you will fall into your circle. You WILL NOT have to change who you are!!
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This is an excellent thread, it makes me wanna take out my Robert Green books again!
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love this thread Thumbs%20Up
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Wow
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YAY! Im sooo happy to see this thread is alive! lol. I figured it would just fade away. But Im happy it hasnt. To Entice, Robert Greene is my idol,lol.
 
What I would like to talk about today is style and soberity.
 
Well, Ive noticed that ballarina flats are in now....and flip flops....I just cant stand the site of PEOPLE in flip flops in the street. GET A SHOE! and unless u have a leg or foot problem, do not wear dressy dresses and then put on flats.....For some people, I feel comfort has turned into downright laziness.  And why do I still see females with bare mid-drifts and dazzy dukes. Oh, the calamity.
 
 
Now for the real, serious topic. Soberity. I have noticed lately a DISGUSTING trend of young ladies who spend 1 hour, 2 hours, 3 hours or more to look SHARP, and FRESH, and CHIC. Everything about them is in vogue. Then, what happens? They go and get drunk! WHY WHY WHY! Theyre stumbling around, their friends just laugh and encourage them to drink some more. It makes me want to slap myself like SHEEESH! Its very sad. I watched a girl hang out looking slinky and sexy. It could have been classy but then she had 1 shot 2 shots 3 shots 4 shots then shes GONE! Stumbling. And the sad part is that she was already having personal guy troubles and she came out to find male attention while she was down. She put so much effort into looking hot just to end up looking a moody hot mess. Ladies, please dont let this happen to you. This was an extreme case but even when you are feeling low, dont jump the gun right into I need to find a hot guy to make me feel better for the moment/night/minute/class period/bus ride...etc etc. Because you will have just handed over your self worth to some guy to determine. With this I could just tell if a guy she met that night totally dissed her, she would have been crushed. Please stay safe and sober and let yourself heal when needed. I hope she got home in one piece, it doesnt seem like her friends were really caring for her. Sad.
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Great post!
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I so love it!!!

Act like a Lady ;; think like a Man is def a book everyone woman should read
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