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Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

The teenager of course knows and the adult knows better due to the laws.

but you really don't know the extent to which the teenager has been exposed so you can't calculate her trauma based on what YOU think of her.  when i was a teenager i looked younger than my age and a few older men still tried it with me.  i knew what sex was, but that doesn't mean i was remotely ready for all of that, and just bc a girl goes through with it, it doesn't mean she knows what she's doing either.  but the way you look at it seems to be the prevailing opinion bc no one cares to protect teenage girls.
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

The teenager of course knows and the adult knows better due to the laws.

but you really don't know the extent to which the teenager has been exposed so you can't calculate her trauma based on what YOU think of her.  when i was a teenager i looked younger than my age and a few older men still tried it with me.  i knew what sex was, but that doesn't mean i was remotely ready for all of that, and just bc a girl goes through with it, it doesn't mean she knows what she's doing either.  but the way you look at it seems to be the prevailing opinion bc no one cares to protect teenage girls.

I'm 29 and I knew the consequences back than, but you are right, I don't know what they have been through and possibly stunted early in life, that's why the law safely put 18 as the legal age. It's up to the parents to protect their children.
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We calling little teenage girls hoes now? 
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Thats why it goes back to the parenting at home. Also you say that older guys tried to hit in you and Im guessing you were smart enough to not be fast and hop into their cars or beds. Lastly, it is a choice to have sex or not have sex. If you are not ready to do something you just don't do it. There are people out there who are truly raped and have no choice. In this case this girl KNEW what she was doing and being fast. She probably saw Rkelly as a star and in her mind imagine herself being his "girlfriend". Im not saying its ok but at what point do we talk about some of these hard-headed girls.
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Unfortunately some of them act like it. Theyre all over wshh and other sites acting out

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

We calling little teenage girls hoes now? 
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Originally posted by Mz. Mocha Mz. Mocha wrote:

Thats why it goes back to the parenting at home. Also you say that older guys tried to hit in you and Im guessing you were smart enough to not be fast and hop into their cars or beds. Lastly, it is a choice to have sex or not have sex. If you are not ready to do something you just don't do it. There are people out there who are truly raped and have no choice. In this case this girl KNEW what she was doing and being fast. She probably saw Rkelly as a star and in her mind imagine herself being his "girlfriend". Im not saying its ok but at what point do we talk about some of these hard-headed girls.

@ the bolded...there were several teenage girls...not just one who "tricked" him(talmbout "show me some id").  he targets teenage girls.  

i did make the choice not to do it but that was more about my personality than being smart enough.  i could've very easily been doing that, have had abortions, babies, and basically be living a terrible life from being put in bad positions as a teenager, like a lot of ppl i know...predators were allowed to move freely and it's the fault of the adults, parents and strangers.  
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

We calling little black teenage girls hoes now? 

fixed, cuz a teen becky will always be seen as a victim
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Welp... we can discuss the album in the music section maybe....

Doesn't seem as if it is going to happen in here.
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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

We calling little black teenage girls hoes now? 

fixed, cuz a teen becky will always be seen as a victim


#fasttailedgirls

They been calling me all kinds of hoes and fast and hot in the booty since I was about 9.

Funny how folks want to say the girl knew what she was doing and she had a choice and blah blah blah. Same folks love to handily forget that grown ass black men from their 20's-death walk around telling little girls of age 8, 10, 12 that they look grown, their booty is looking right, and they can't wait until they're just a bit older.

But now Shanika is a ho cuz she gives in at age 14 after being groomed sexually for half a decade.
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